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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:11 PM Author: Clear water buffalo tattoo We have family members who help us with the kids. There’s still no peace. Soccer, gymnastics, sleepovers, no alone time with wife, no time to self, no time to just play on my phone, no time for hobbies or other pleasures. It’s all dad mode all the time. No escape. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261316) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:39 PM Author: Bonkers Carmine Tanning Salon Fat Ankles To be fair, again, why not get a live in nanny? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261682) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 3:03 PM Author: Clear water buffalo tattoo We don’t need one as we have sufficient family help. There are just some things mom and dad can’t delegate that you have to be there for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261796) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 9:48 PM Author: bateful deer antler true I never learned the power of friendship as my father was not present at 100% of my baseball practices (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46263653) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:01 AM Author: Bonkers Carmine Tanning Salon Fat Ankles To be fair, you sound like a faggot to be honest.
"There’s still no peace. Soccer, gymnastics, sleepovers, no alone time with wife, no time to self, no time to just play on my phone, no time for hobbies or other pleasures."
Followed by "We don’t need one as we have sufficient family help."
Keep being miserable but being there all the time. Sounds like a win for the kids. I've never heard of parents being there for their kids but not really being there due to their unhappiness. |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 5:33 PM Author: silver stag film You have "family members help" and "they have sleepovers" why isn't that some "alone time" for you?
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 10:12 AM Author: Lake sickened locus Same No objective reason I should be miserable but I still am Just don’t like the daily grind of little kid drama |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:12 PM Author: Clear water buffalo tattoo Men aren’t evolved to rear children. They need constant attention, nurturing, guidance, and discipline. We’re not made for this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261319) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:26 PM Author: Lake sickened locus Everything’s a crisis. They’re always yelling or whining or crying or destroying something or hurting themselves. It’s this for as long as they’re awake all day everyday. Lmao I work from home and am actively looking for jobs that will get me out of the house during the day |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:30 PM Author: bateful deer antler wtf? are they autistic or something? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261649) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:32 PM Author: Lake sickened locus Nah totally typical actually. Little kids just have no filter and can’t control emotions well and are high maintenance and not independent at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261658) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:33 PM Author: bateful deer antler oh I thought they were middle school age. maybe I'm confusing you with OP
yeah toddlers seem like a total shitshow. I suggest putting diapers on their heads. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:50 PM Author: bateful deer antler damn, daddy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261735) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:05 AM Author: Sooty Laughsome Sweet Tailpipe Liquid Oxygen I read about xo kids and it's unbelievable. One poaster described getting to bang his wife bent over in the bathroom during one of their rare moments of privacy with their disgusting whiny brats trying to claw at their door like zombies. Really speaks to genetic differences as no kid in any branch of my family ever acted like that. Your guys kids' brains really are shrunken htfh. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264394) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:59 PM Author: multi-colored yellow chad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266993) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 12:54 PM Author: Odious Private Investor State no wonder-- that is a lot of kids bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261219) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:16 PM Author: Lilac Field Karate Wow. Just wow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261341) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:08 PM Author: gay violent den wagecucks sometimes as an old singlemo i get melancholy, so thanks for this thread friend :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261304) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:13 PM Author: Clear water buffalo tattoo Enjoy it. You can do whatever you want. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261321) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 4:16 PM Author: gay violent den wagecucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46262118) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:57 PM Author: Rebellious magical sound barrier filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266989) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:12 PM Author: Burgundy naked crackhouse doctorate So what does happiness even mean then? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261318) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:13 PM Author: Clear water buffalo tattoo Good question. Maybe being a grandparent will be better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261323) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:27 PM Author: Cream Bearded Hairy Legs Stain they will take all you're willing to give.
This applies to everything btw. Kids, partners, clients, judges, schools, playgrounds, wives,web 1.0 message boards.
we are in a very fortunate position where we have a lot to give. but it's important to recognize that there are & have to be limits. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:43 PM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set after grudgingly buying into travel soccer (for which my kid largely sits on the bench) we are now signed in for 7 AM 6 days a week swim team this summer. sleeping in is one of the only joys I have as a night owl and this will legitimately destroy my health and happiness. but we have to keep up with the joneses (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261462) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:45 PM Author: Cream Bearded Hairy Legs Stain why do this swimming is good. making it your identity is bad
all xoers should read this and internalize its lessons
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/80176.Winesburg_Ohio |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 1:45 PM Author: Glittery Quadroon do the kids love the soccer and swimming? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261469) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 3:02 PM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set varies by the hour (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261792) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:14 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon but on the whole you're not forcing them to participate like this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264342) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:04 AM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264847) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:27 PM Author: turquoise useless yarmulke Whiney little bitch boi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261640) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:40 PM Author: Bonkers Carmine Tanning Salon Fat Ankles To be fair, this thread shows what bitches white people are. No wonder niggers can beat you and murder you in the streets at will and you do nothing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261686) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:42 PM Author: Vermilion Titillating Hospital Pocket Flask 180 bro
I'm going to sail some Pacific Islands in a few weeks please keep me poasted about your kids swim meet when I get back |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 2:56 PM Author: Odious Private Investor State I was going to say, something along the lines of "modern men are children." They can't handle responsibility, want to fuck strange, play video games, get stoned with friends, etc. All good, but at some point realize that you can get joy out of different things, like kids. Except that I think men have always been that way. Dads used to go out to get a pack of cigs and never come back-- easier back then without the internet. In short https://i.gifer.com/72j1.gif |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 3:24 PM Author: Vermilion Titillating Hospital Pocket Flask i cant wait to leave my future kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46261869) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 9:48 PM Author: Crawly Old Irish Cottage Cruise Ship its not "responsibility" its 24/7 nonsense (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46263649) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:14 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon if kids and their joy is nonsense, take a long hard look at your life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264341) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:49 AM Author: appetizing travel guidebook trust fund You don't have kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46269323) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 2:18 PM Author: Glittery Quadroon oh but I do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46273871) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2023 10:03 PM Author: Lake sickened locus Dads are expected to act like moms today it’s insane. I’m good just seeing them for a few minutes a day tbh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46263705) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 7:40 AM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264488) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:37 AM Author: Orchid indian lodge place of business Old singlemo here. Honest threads like this (and the deep suspicion that many "happy" family people secretly feel this way but would never say anything out of fear of being shamed by people like TBF) is what kept me from settling down. It is the one decision in life you can never take back (well, not without being a horrendous asshole who ruins many lives).
The post about being miserable for most of your life for a few years of senile contentment was just sad. I would rather risk it with a 401k and savings and top notch senior living facility than sacrifice my whole life to have people around to wipe my ass when I am 80 (and those people might be dead/alcoholics/drug addicts/financially irresponsible/horrible people, or even decent people who are simply caught up with their own lives). No thanks.
To the OP: I sincerely feel for you and hope it gets better. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:41 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon i suspect op is being a bit overdramatic, needs a little break
you on the other hand, sheesh |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:42 AM Author: Orchid indian lodge place of business I think more people feel like this than you would guess but the societal response is so negative they just suffer in silence. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264353) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:44 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon well yeah it's a shameful thing to not be able to raise a family cuz youre too selfish or scared
i mean yeah it's better to not do it if you are, but dont think anyone should respect you as a man just because you admit that you cant |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:35 PM Author: Orchid indian lodge place of business I don't think it's selfish to have personal and emotional needs of your own. People need sleep, quiet time, alone time, time with their partner and space from others. This isn't RSF or nyuug foregoing having kids because they want to go clubbing until they are senior citizens. OP just wants some sleep and time to himself to collect his thoughts once in a while. OP says he is not having his needs met and people like you shame him. There are other people who feel like him who will never post in agreement because they don't want to be told that they are selfish and immature simply for having needs of their own. And you want me to sign up for a life of this so that internet people will respect me? |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 9:09 AM Author: Rebellious magical sound barrier filthpig pwn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46268906) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 9:15 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon I’m not shaming the OP, I’m empathize with him. but surely he is happy to have the family all things considered
I’m shaming immature weaklings like you. you remind me of the Seinfeld bit with George where they talk about not being men at all |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 9:22 AM Author: Rebellious magical sound barrier filthpig how tall are you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46268963) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 11:52 PM Author: Orchid indian lodge place of business Yep anyone who makes different life choices than you is an immature weakling.
Why are kidmos so hostile, judgmental and intent on forcing others down the same path? |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 7:43 AM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio I can definitely relate to op. Being a dad and husband is 180 but it is a lot of work, especially since women don't pull their weight anymore. I would love to have a single day with no obligations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264495) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:13 AM Author: rose shivering meetinghouse The demands on working professional men have never been higher: firms, clients, and wives all demand so, so much now. Add on the school constant requests for parental involvement, the insane demands of the horseshit “travel” sports industry, and the pressure to strive and have your kids do all this afterschool stuff and it’s A LOT. I can emphasize with OP and I’m a huge proponent of wife and kids / traditional family man life.
I place most of the blame on “feminism.” |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:19 AM Author: bateful deer antler the blame lies with the destruction of community in modern society, but america in particular. unlike parts of europe where there is at least somewhat of a tradition of living with family/being part of a greater society, america has as its core always been "rootless"--people immigrating for a new chance, children of immigrants taking their shot at homesteading, etc. we've never had an extended period of cultural stability as the country has been rapidly evolving ever since its inception. the glue which held this together was religion, and once that went away we're just an economy with borders. one replacement for religion (which is at least better than most of the alternatives) is hyperfocus on immediate family: "Husband, father, ..." above all else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264926) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:32 AM Author: Cream Bearded Hairy Legs Stain when a smaller percentage of the population meets baseline competence, demands become proportionally greater on the competent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264995) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 3:36 PM Author: Vermilion Titillating Hospital Pocket Flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266323) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:05 AM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio No, it is feminism. Men are expected to do 90 percent of a household's work now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265180) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 3:23 PM Author: Vermilion Titillating Hospital Pocket Flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266264) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:35 AM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set I have to remind my SAHM wife that I literally have about 3 hours a week (usually Friday and Saturday nights after kids are in bed) when I have any time at all to do something I want to do. every other minute is work, kids, or family obligations.
meanwhile she has 2-3 girls' nights a week, has six hours a day while the kids are in school, and has "play dates" with the neighbors after school that mainly consist of her and the neighbors drinking two bottles of wine while the kids play in traffic |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:01 AM Author: Lake sickened locus Lmao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265167) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:10 AM Author: Mewling base lettuce It’s a wonderful life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265191) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:12 AM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265203) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:15 AM Author: mahogany 180 range If you can keep it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265212) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:52 PM Author: Low-t organic girlfriend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266976) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 8:34 AM Author: Rebellious magical sound barrier filthpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46268781) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:17 AM Author: stimulating institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46269210) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:38 PM Author: Razzle Cheese-eating Locale Is your wife into ass play? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265540) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 1:02 PM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set formerly, no longer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265636) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:54 PM Author: charcoal aromatic principal's office weed whacker sounds like there's a story here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266983) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 9:10 AM Author: Rebellious magical sound barrier filthpig tbf she correctly recognizes that you are her slave (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46268916) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:30 AM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set you should hear how these bitches talk about the other husbands that are bad fathers, low earners, etc. at least I get to maintain a shred of dignity and status (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46269259) |
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Date: March 30th, 2024 8:52 PM Author: scarlet puppy LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#47540721) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:42 AM Author: Heady shimmering juggernaut regret
The issue is that having kids requires 10x more work than it did 100 years ago. You pretty much need a two income household just to live in a good school district. That means you and your wife have to have careers going before you have a kid, so you’re looking at late 20s or early 30s for having your first kid – right when you stop having that youthful energy that would match your kids’. The competition for everything is higher: getting into schools, having activities, even just having family time. The CPS state means you need an exhaustive level of oversight on your kid at all times, and your kid doesn’t become independent until far later than they should. And you’re doing all of this around two full time jobs, both of which treat employees as fungible commodities that can be replaced as soon as it is profitable or convenient to do so. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:00 PM Author: Lilac Field Karate When your kid says they love you and wants to cuddle - nothing has ever felt better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265395) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:08 PM Author: Supple Indigo Indirect Expression Set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265427) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 5:31 AM Author: Deep death wish It’s true but I would never go back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264375) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 5:51 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264388) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:43 AM Author: Heady shimmering juggernaut regret (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46269308) |
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Date: June 7th, 2023 3:09 PM Author: Canary exhilarant resort factory reset button this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46400049) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 9:53 AM Author: Nighttime dead lodge Lol what time do your kids go to bed? We both get a break after 8pm. Kids are also shitheads like maybe 80% of the time. The other 20% they play together nicely and are occasionally loving (even if it’s because they want candy or whatever). Those moments are supposed to recharge you.
Also stop over scheduling your kids with meaningless activities they’re not going to get anywhere with. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:00 AM Author: bateful deer antler when nutella is telling you to put the breaks on striving it's time to take a long, hard look in the mirror (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264828) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:00 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon sounds like she’s saying focus on things that help strive, not “meaningless” activities” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264831) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:16 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264908) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:59 AM Author: Nighttime dead lodge I was a striver so my kids don’t have to be. They don’t need to be a dr, lawyer, etc to burn out at age 35.
That’s a dream come true for me that my kids won’t feel that pressure to do better than their parents (in fact odds are they won’t). They can do what they love and they don’t need to make money, but I’d like them to not be entitled and be good people. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:15 AM Author: rose shivering meetinghouse (In-house attorney not still at the office at 8pm) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264900) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:15 AM Author: Fragrant outnumbered people who are hurt If your kids are shitheads 80% of the time that’s a reflection on you, both how you parent them and what you feed them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264904) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:22 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264944) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:48 AM Author: Nighttime dead lodge Kids being “shitheads” in that they’re needy, don’t give you space as people are complaining about above. I don’t find that to actually be shithead behavior. It’s being kids esp young kids.
Anyway happiness in the sense of pure joy basically is a straight dive down from birth. I’ve never seen such joy other than in kids. That gives me happiness even if the days are long. Maybe that’s something men don’t derive happiness from.
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:53 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon are you the one who said “I’m not a fucking dairy cow?” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265120) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 4:41 PM Author: Glittery Quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46270652) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:16 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt Having one kid is CR. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264905) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:20 AM Author: bateful deer antler as an only child it is most definitely NOT cr unless you have a damn good reason (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264931) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:30 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt The good reason is the OP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264986) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:21 AM Author: Lake sickened locus For you maybe but not for the kid. My kids are each others best friends (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264938) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:23 AM Author: bateful deer antler it's not growing up when it sucks. sure only children end up a little bit more autistic than usual, but this is zozo we're talking about so that's a drop in the bucket compared to our gene pool.
it sucks when your parents get older and you are the only one around. nobody to reminisce with, nobody to confide in planning funerals or going to hospitals, etc. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:32 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt why would the kid be autistic? He’s around other kids all day long at pre school, school, etc.
If you are telling me the best argument you have for siblings is funeral planning that’s not convicnving. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:38 AM Author: bateful deer antler yes you clearly got to my most important point and definitely groked the spirit of what I was saying. how often do you talk to your parents by the way? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265032) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:49 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt There are diminishing returns with each additional child but the additional costs stay the same as the first one. If anything the costs exponentially increase because it’s so difficult to take care of multiple kids.
I’m just trying to solve of the OP’s problem. He would be significantly less miserable with just one kid but still happier than having no kids. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 10:31 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt Well yes obviously if you did everything in your life for your kids you would be the miserable OP. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46264993) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:46 AM Author: Heady shimmering juggernaut regret Having 1 kid is not TCR. Every kid after the first is incrementally easier. You have the infrastructure and experience in place.
Having just 1 kid means you’ve done most of the work but all you’re getting out of it is one selfish weirdo. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:29 AM Author: Odious Private Investor State I think when women give birth some chemical gets released that makes them forget the pain they just went through-- makes them more willing to have other kids. Not sure if it is true or not. I do know that ten or twenty years from now you won't remember all of the hectic, stressful times you went through with your kids when they were little. You will remember the fun times, the happy times, even the sad times-- but you will not think it wasn't worth it. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 11:30 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265263) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:06 PM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio Men still have a right to complain that they are working to pay 90 percent of the bills, do 90 percent of the household work, and get 1 hour per week to relax while moms get 50 hours of relaxation time per week. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265420) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:08 PM Author: bateful deer antler in other news, xo has many jewish males who married jewish females. odd case. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265432) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 1:38 PM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio I am Catholic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265776) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:57 PM Author: maroon hilarious newt Lol at doing 90 percent of the household work tho. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265609) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 2:32 PM Author: rose shivering meetinghouse That’s for sure an exaggeration but it is a 2023 universal truth that men are asked to do far more than they ought to be.
SAHMs scroll on their phones for hours/day while the kids play around them. When they hear sustained screaming, they will finally look up. The mask completely came off during Covid WFH.
All of my IRL friends/acquaintances and coworkers with whom I’ve discussed these things are in the same boat with two exceptions: brown guy whose wife absolutely runs shit and he doesn’t have to lift a finger, and an LDS dude (although he has his own complaints). |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 2:47 PM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266136) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 4:10 PM Author: maroon hilarious newt That sucks for all you guys. Thankfully not my personal experience. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266439) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:57 PM Author: charcoal aromatic principal's office weed whacker the wife who runs shit, what motivates her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266988) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 5:35 PM Author: silver stag film If your wife is also bringing in a percentage of $, then she should be entitled to have time to rest. Even if she brings 30% of the income, that doesn't mean her job is not 9-5 and stressful.
If she does not work and is a SAHM then you're right and she should be doing more, but don't forget that taking care of the kids is also a ton of work. It's not like she doesn't do shit. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 7:06 PM Author: multi-colored yellow chad For women it literally permanently changes their brain like a second puberty
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6865685/ |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:38 PM Author: sticky friendly grandma ladyboy You’re a huge fucking loser who spams here 24/7. Your life seems fucking awful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46265538) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 12:55 PM Author: silver stag film This is what makes me cherish every minute of my free time with no spouse or kids. I will never bring another bothersome human into my own personal space. It's mine and only mine and I do whatever I want with it. It's 1800000.
Dying on my own also seems very credited. This life is shit already, why make it shittier by bringing more humans to it? |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 2:50 PM Author: nofapping church ape Obnoxious freak the poster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266152) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:11 PM Author: silver stag film Who says we have to bring other humans into our lives? Nobody except the rest of the humans who need to be accepted into society. Not even religions state you're forced to have kids, except maybe a few of them and the most retarded ones. The truth is that if you don't want kids, and you're not living to please others, you will do whatever the fuck you want, even if a gay xo'er is maf about it. I know plenty of people who have kids and later in life do not even speak to them so even those who have kids don't always end up close to them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266856) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 6:26 PM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio I am one of the big complainers itt. No regrets at all about having kids. Modern white women are the problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266904) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 1:43 AM Author: silver stag film You're a big complainer about those who don't have kids? How come? You say you don't have complaints about having had kids so it would not make sense you're complaining about that. Elaborate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46268412) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 1:47 AM Author: Orchid indian lodge place of business Hey are kidmos so aggressive about forcing marriage and kids in single people? Seems a bit insecure, like who are you trying to convince me or you?
You never seen singlemos attacking kidmos or trying to convince undecideds not to have kids. Meanwhile kidmos are always on their soapbox trying to convert followers. It just seems like misery loving company to me. |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 2:52 PM Author: Adventurous menage bbw Unhappily married with kids, but the kids are still 180 and i wouldn't trade my life if i could go back in time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46266169) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 7:02 PM Author: multi-colored yellow chad Parents, especially of kids 12 and under report higher overall levels of happiness/contentment but far lower if you look at eg their specific day. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46267002) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 8:21 PM Author: Cream Bearded Hairy Legs Stain This sounds right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46267237) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2023 7:07 PM Author: multi-colored yellow chad I'd also add, how often do you get approached by and old guy and he tells you to try and enjoy this moment because you'll miss it later. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46267031) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:33 AM Author: Odious Private Investor State I am that old guy. Believe it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46269275) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:43 AM Author: irradiated home brethren I can definitely relate. In addition to the tedium, your life can be rendered utter hell at any time by your child getting a serious illness, addiction, etc.
OTOH, I don't necessarily envy loner old guys either- there's something vaguely creepy about a lot of them. The raising kid life is the way it's supposed to be, for better or worse. This thread is definitely worthwhile in exposing the daily tedium, though. |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:43 AM Author: hideous hunting ground Thank you for being brave enough to tell your story. It's all true: men aren't wired to take care of kids for hours, so it feels suffocating. Of course you don't regret having kids, but you feel tired and unsatisfied day to day because you can't do anything you want to do for yourself (including just chilling and doing nothing). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46269309) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 10:49 AM Author: sticky friendly grandma ladyboy Just a reminder, this is the OP. LMAO
https://imgur.io/a/qCtZqSl |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 3:02 PM Author: Ebony diverse circlehead digit ratio Why is he talking about having a wife and kids now? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46270241) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 7:50 PM Author: sticky friendly grandma ladyboy He’s insane and literally posts garbage here 24/7 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46271292) |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 2:44 PM Author: Nighttime dead lodge You know those of you complaining the loudest are opting into this insane lifestyle that causes unhappiness for you and your kids right?
It doesn’t have to be this way. You don’t need to keep up with modern yuppie parenting. Build legos. Cook with them. Go biking with them. That isn’t stressful at all and should bring you happiness. If it doesn’t, then i don’t know; maybe kids aren’t for you.
Constantly shuttling them from activity to activity and ruining your nights and weekends isn’t going to help your happiness and (in 90% of the cases) your kids’ happiness. If you want to teach your kids the value of hard work, team work, etc there are lower stress and cheaper ways to do it than the travel teams, gymnastic gyms, private coaches, music lessons, speciality summer camps etc.
The old people who tell you to enjoy are correct (other than babyhood which is objectively awful). But once they hit 2, they’re like mini humans and before you know it, they’re going to be preteens and hating you. Go enjoy yourself while kids are still innocent. It only gets worse as they get older and life becomes serious - suicide, depression, drugs. The only time to actually be happy is when they love you the most and just want to be with you. And the best memories both you and they will have looking back is family time. |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 4:43 PM Author: Glittery Quadroon babyhood is awful, says an awful mother
seriously who breeds with you freaks |
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Date: May 4th, 2023 5:38 PM Author: bateful deer antler you enjoyed constantly being woken up in the middle of the night? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46270854) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 8:55 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon ?
I slept fine |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 9:04 AM Author: bateful deer antler Congrats man. Many people with babies don't, as babies tend to not give a fuck about your 8 hour block. It's hard for most to suddenly adjust to sleeping in shifts, and lack of sleep is one of the worst things for your mind.
I'm no Nutella fan but she's being objectively very reasonable here and you're clearly just looking for something to shit on her about. There's plenty of material to mock her for, old and new (even elsewhere in this thread!), but this most certainly ain't it |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 11:53 AM Author: Glittery Quadroon babyhood isn’t “objectively awful” for normal loving parents
hth |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 8:51 AM Author: embarrassed to the bone space The reality is that there’s a wide variance in babies and how much they suck, but that’s also true of kids at all other ages. The difference is that it’s common, really more likely than not, that a baby that’s a pain in the ass for the first 3-18 months of its life will become a kid that doesn’t suck. But easy babies don’t become evil/annoying/shitty kids later in life.
Still the most surprising thing about becoming a parent and dealing with our kids by far is realizing that it’s mostly luck. There are lots of parents we know who really deserve better kids given how cool they are and how much they love and sacrifice for their kids. And there are parents who are actively shitty to their kids and their kids are awesome and don’t let it mess them up. People are complex and different and sometimes two cool people have a kid that takes after a sociopath great uncle or whatever. That’s why Nutella is right that if you have a kid who is not defective and loves you, then putting as much time and focus on that as possible is CR, not striver activities that are 90+% going to seem like at best a more elaborate and expensive way to get them to do something to be creative or get some exercise. |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 10:51 PM Author: Nighttime dead lodge I think (most?) parents don’t believe it’s luck and that it’s more so nurture.
My husband and I were both 80s latch key kids. Our parents were pretty bad by today’s standards. the outcomes are kind of all over the place despite the parenting.
I feel like each kid you have is basically playing the lottery and there’s only so much you can do. I also don’t believe in upward mobility in this day and age for children. That’s a thing for boomers. Thus, just let go and let them enjoy their childhoods. |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 12:10 PM Author: Odious Private Investor State You will even look back on babyhood fondly. My wife and I took "shifts" when my son was a baby. He had some pretty bad reflux issues so he did not sleep well-- certainly not through the night. I still have memories of watching West Coast college football games with him, walking him around to get him to sleep, him sleeping on my chest in the recliner. A sleeping baby on your chest while you drift off, is a pretty great feeling. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46273289) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 10:46 PM Author: Nighttime dead lodge I’m far removed enough from that where I already do. My husband found me in tears watching a google photos “they grow up so fast” video set to sappy music. That said, aside from caring for babies, I just find them so incredibly boring and the play involved in mind numbing. I much prefer little kids. They are so curious, their reasoning skills are hilarious and ask questions you have trouble answering. I write down the things they say so I can look back one day.
I can’t lie and say my life is viscerally happier day to day with children. Probably the happiest was being engaged/married without any responsibilities other than a dog. But I think people do it so that they gain more long term satisfaction and meaning in their lives. At least that’s why I did it. That’s also why I want to try to spend time with my them rather than fill it up with so many activities. |
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Date: May 6th, 2023 11:24 AM Author: maroon hilarious newt Only defective women don’t like babies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46277163) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 2:10 PM Author: bateful deer antler it's a good post but let's not get too ahead of ourselves. we all know nutella contracted tsinah to write some cron scripts that set off her vibrator every time a net worth thread is posted. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46273826) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 2:11 PM Author: Glittery Quadroon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5333636&forum_id=2#46273833) |
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