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Single successful bro - head to NYC or LA? CR?

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light hell
  10/23/24
I do horribly on Hinge in my T2/T3 city. I set my location t...
Stimulating stead
  10/24/24
cr
light hell
  10/24/24
! good idea. i bet a lot of guys would be amazed how easy i...
fragrant public bath candlestick maker
  10/24/24
LA if you can afford it.
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
NYC for sure -- no matter how much money you have - the peop...
embarrassed to the bone library cumskin
  10/23/24
you cant ever get anywhere in la
Avocado flirting jap
  10/23/24
How old is too old for NYC? And how much is there to do t...
Yellow Slap-happy Sound Barrier
  10/23/24
There is a ton of shit to do man. Any weird niche you’...
light hell
  10/23/24
What about 50’s?
Bateful multi-billionaire
  10/23/24
lol I mean yeah maybe you can still hit on 35 year old sex i...
light hell
  10/23/24
Disgusting
hyperventilating field mad-dog skullcap
  10/24/24
As the two posts above indicate, LA and NYC are very differe...
fragrant public bath candlestick maker
  10/23/24
This is CR. I say this as an LA-mo too. NYC is second to non...
lemon yapping church building
  10/23/24
i can afford it brother, but is it worth the cost vs. ballin...
light hell
  10/23/24
dude just move home if youre so successful
Avocado flirting jap
  10/23/24
LA/CA weather and nature is second to none. Depends on how a...
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
sounds fun. does constantly traveling get lonely? tons of...
light hell
  10/23/24
Not lonely. Most of those trips are with my wife and/or frie...
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
would you live the same lifestyle if you were single? why no...
light hell
  10/23/24
If i were single I'd probably travel on more surf trips, but...
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
>> My father says he sees me more than he used to when...
painfully honest gold double fault
  10/24/24
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Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/24/24
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light hell
  10/24/24
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fragrant public bath candlestick maker
  10/24/24
this sounds 180 but do you have children?
diverse garrison national security agency
  10/23/24
no children. Godfather to a few, uncle to many. I take great...
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
If you're a "successful bro" you'll need a car in ...
Curious Plaza
  10/23/24
???
light hell
  10/24/24
Leave the US
Charismatic autistic partner
  10/23/24
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Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
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Black meetinghouse
  10/23/24
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Confused main people faggot firefighter
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Canary base
  10/23/24
almost all expats usually return
light hell
  10/23/24
They do not, unless they want to die from food poisoning.
Provocative codepig yarmulke
  10/23/24
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Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/24/24
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Twinkling newt
  10/23/24
LA but only if Manhattan Beach or Dana Point NYC but only...
electric cowardly gay wizard
  10/23/24
anti-Lagunamo
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/23/24
cannot imagine living in "Westchester". either ...
Gay Idiotic Boltzmann
  10/23/24
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contagious puce den gaming laptop
  10/23/24
What benefits is he talking about?
electric cowardly gay wizard
  10/23/24
he's mocking people who think that inconvenient-but-accessib...
contagious puce den gaming laptop
  10/24/24
I cannot imagine not having a garage/workshop or an enclosed...
electric cowardly gay wizard
  10/23/24
(literal boomer)
light hell
  10/23/24
Why SFH for singlemo? I guess you save on nyc income tax but...
pearl organic girlfriend
  10/23/24
this is fucking retarded. a nice condo in a good neighborhoo...
light hell
  10/23/24
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fragrant public bath candlestick maker
  10/24/24
where?
glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage
  10/24/24
every neighborhood? https://streeteasy.com/building/madis...
light hell
  10/24/24
that madison and nolita one areent bad, HOA and fees must be...
glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage
  10/24/24
nashville. bang broadway sluts in your 180 condo
sienna razzle orchestra pit
  10/23/24
i get the sense you dont want a wife or kids. sure, go ahead...
Excitant Alpha
  10/23/24
this is why I like nashville. Has enough of the "fun, h...
sienna razzle orchestra pit
  10/23/24
nashville fucking sucks dick hermitage is cool but that c...
glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage
  10/23/24
nashville and its suburbs is easily the best metro in the US...
sienna razzle orchestra pit
  10/23/24
How's Franklin?
glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage
  10/23/24
you need a lot more than 10 million net worth to live comfor...
embarrassed to the bone library cumskin
  10/23/24
Let’s be honest, you really don’t. Most people a...
light hell
  10/23/24
nice house in a decent neighborhood - 3 - 5 million dollars ...
embarrassed to the bone library cumskin
  10/23/24
thread is for a single guy. can find some decent apartment f...
light hell
  10/23/24
good luck dating LA women ubering everywhere or pushing a to...
embarrassed to the bone library cumskin
  10/23/24
you shouldnt pick LA period if you care about dating. NYC is...
Excitant Alpha
  10/24/24
lol get the fuck outta here man. 250k/year and no savings is...
Excitant Alpha
  10/23/24
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contagious puce den gaming laptop
  10/24/24
I went north for wife/kids
hyperventilating field mad-dog skullcap
  10/24/24
NYC, LA is awful.
Carnelian Hilarious Indian Lodge
  10/23/24
Love the new moniker. Fuck that guy.
Charismatic autistic partner
  10/24/24
You seem like a Balboabro, maybe Malibubro - you just haven'...
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/25/24
No one asked the most important question: what is your heigh...
Bateful multi-billionaire
  10/23/24
NYC is friendlier to shorts
embarrassed to the bone library cumskin
  10/23/24
this can't be the case - half of Hollywood is sub-5'10"...
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/25/24
as opposed to the super tall biglolers and models and bottle...
embarrassed to the bone library cumskin
  10/30/24
6 foot
light hell
  10/24/24
over 30? NYC
aggressive office
  10/23/24
(Prince Akeem)
razzmatazz shaky state ceo
  10/25/24
nobody asked OP the most important question: what does succe...
Excitant Alpha
  10/29/24
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fragrant public bath candlestick maker
  10/29/24
idk i guess i dont really need to "feel rich" i pl...
light hell
  10/29/24
just consider who you are competing with. in NYC its billion...
Excitant Alpha
  10/30/24
where should i move
low-t fortuitous meteor
  10/29/24
Islington.
Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot
  10/29/24
thanks friend
low-t fortuitous meteor
  10/29/24
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light hell
  10/29/24


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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:56 AM
Author: light hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48229923)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 5:54 PM
Author: Stimulating stead

I do horribly on Hinge in my T2/T3 city. I set my location to NYC and had a solid amount of hot matches.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236494)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 6:41 PM
Author: light hell

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236681)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 9:59 PM
Author: fragrant public bath candlestick maker

! good idea. i bet a lot of guys would be amazed how easy it is to date in nyc. removing the car logistics from early dates is also big

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48237408)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:23 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

LA if you can afford it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230003)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:27 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone library cumskin

NYC for sure -- no matter how much money you have - the people in LA are soulless and you'll have trouble having a real social life/group. It's a far more transient city than NYC and the local's social groups and hierarchy are already baked in.

If you want 180 weather and outdoor shit to do, LA is it, but if you want to make friends and have lots of casual sex NYC is better

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230023)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:29 AM
Author: Avocado flirting jap

you cant ever get anywhere in la

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230026)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 6:46 PM
Author: Yellow Slap-happy Sound Barrier

How old is too old for NYC?

And how much is there to do that isn't focused on drinking ?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232270)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 6:55 PM
Author: light hell

There is a ton of shit to do man. Any weird niche you’re into you can find a community for that

Nyc is the only place in the US where you can live like you’re 20, well into your 30s and 40s and it’s totally normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232304)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:08 PM
Author: Bateful multi-billionaire

What about 50’s?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232849)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:00 PM
Author: light hell

lol I mean yeah maybe you can still hit on 35 year old sex in the city shrews

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233137)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 5:15 PM
Author: hyperventilating field mad-dog skullcap

Disgusting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236291)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:31 PM
Author: fragrant public bath candlestick maker

As the two posts above indicate, LA and NYC are very different. Most people just find that they fit into the vibe better in one or the other. It would help if you say more about yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232939)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:49 PM
Author: lemon yapping church building

This is CR. I say this as an LA-mo too. NYC is second to none for a single dude who is still in the socializing/party stage of life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233326)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:31 AM
Author: light hell

i can afford it brother, but is it worth the cost vs. balling out in like Houston or something? that is an totally different question

LA seems like a big headache, getting around and owning a car. its taxes and demographics are worse than NYC. why not MFH?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230038)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:35 AM
Author: Avocado flirting jap

dude just move home if youre so successful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230054)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:49 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

LA/CA weather and nature is second to none. Depends on how active you are, really, and how much cash you can burn.

NYC is a nice visit, but living there full-time seems fucking atrocious.

I'd choose London over NYC if you have cash. I just got back from Greece, heading on a surf trip to Morocco after Christmas. Back to US in Feb, then Berlin for work then back to London. Cannes / French Riviera in May.

Unless you're a finance bro stuck on the golden handcuffed concrete island, why choose NYC?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230107)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:53 AM
Author: light hell

sounds fun. does constantly traveling get lonely?

tons of cool shit to do by foot/metro. only city in the US. food, culture, history, easy hot women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230122)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 11:07 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

Not lonely. Most of those trips are with my wife and/or friends, or visiting family back home. Greece was a 4 day trip - being here means flying to Morocco only take 3 hrs. I have a solid life here with more friends who actually do things together than I really thought I'd have at my age.

Instead of the town center with the Walgreens, Target, Starbies, Chipotle and Albertsons being your big Saturday out (1hr in traffic each way, plus 30 mins finding a spot not taken up by a raised pickup parking across 4 spots, all for the BIG SHOP) - you can use functional public transportation to get to the airport in less than an hour and be pounding beers at the Hofbräuhaus in München in less than 4 hrs door to door (almost), laughing with dirndl cladded bartendresses at the suckers in the US still stuck in traffic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230171)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 12:27 PM
Author: light hell

would you live the same lifestyle if you were single? why not just move back home - it sounds more 180 and cheaper

traveling all the time seems great, but i think for most people they need a home and a routine. they need to develop connections and foster them etc. im always hesitant about the "leave the country" advice, because almost all ex-pats usually return to their homeland

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230548)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 6:32 PM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

If i were single I'd probably travel on more surf trips, but life would look pretty similar. I love my house in London and have a 180 routine with this dude - https://imgur.com/a/JZCWoGy - I'm in London probably 2/3 of the year. Travelling is 1000% easier here than in the US. It's not a huge trip to go to Amsterdam or Paris or Belgium, Morocco or Greece. Instead of going to the jersey shore for the weekend, I can fly 2 hrs to Portugal, or take the ferry to Spain and bring my hound.

I love a lot about the US, but living back home full time doesn't really seem healthy for most people and not for me. My quality of life is so much better outside of the US. Work/life balance etc. just can't be replicated back in the toxic cesspit.

Our closest friends here just had their first babby - wife walked over to their house this afternoon and made a big dinner for everyone. After I finished up work, I walked over with the hound and we had a wonderful dinner together. After we ate I had my goddaughter on my chest telling her all the ways i was going to spoil her over the years while her mother got a few minutes for herself. Our community here is surprisingly strong and I didnt expect it to be when we first moved. I did the dishes for them and then wife and I hightailed it to the pub for a nice pint before we walked back home together.

I fly back to see my father and fam 2-4 times a year (i try for at least 3) so I'm not totally removed from the homeland. I'm so glad when I land in the US and so fucking happy when I fly back and hear the captain say we're beginning our descent back into London.

Just because you dont live in the country full time anymore doesnt mean can't visit for weeks at a time. My father says he sees me more than he used to when we lived in the same state. And when I am there, we spend actual quality time together. It's just different.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232238)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 2:07 AM
Author: painfully honest gold double fault

>> My father says he sees me more than he used to when we lived in the same state. And when I am there, we spend actual quality time together.

This is cr. I moved cross country from mine and I hear the same. Have to be intentional about it, but when we do spend time together, we make it count vs. some obligatory Sunday dinner when everyone is stressed and just wants to get it over with and wife is giving you evil eye to gtfo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233830)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 4:29 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233920)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 10:16 AM
Author: light hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48234536)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 3:43 PM
Author: fragrant public bath candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48235844)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 1:00 PM
Author: diverse garrison national security agency

this sounds 180 but do you have children?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230707)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 6:08 PM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

no children. Godfather to a few, uncle to many. I take great joy in spoiling the shit out of the little ones and they'll always have a spot with me and wife if they ever want/need. It's turned into a pretty great life so far.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232192)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:00 PM
Author: Curious Plaza

If you're a "successful bro" you'll need a car in NYC too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232568)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 6:24 PM
Author: light hell

???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236611)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:59 AM
Author: Charismatic autistic partner

Leave the US

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230144)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 11:07 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230173)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 11:12 AM
Author: Black meetinghouse



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 11:16 AM
Author: Confused main people faggot firefighter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230203)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 12:31 PM
Author: Canary base



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230570)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 12:36 PM
Author: light hell

almost all expats usually return

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230600)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 4:30 PM
Author: Provocative codepig yarmulke

They do not, unless they want to die from food poisoning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231824)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 5:13 PM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236282)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 10:40 PM
Author: Twinkling newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233298)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 11:11 AM
Author: electric cowardly gay wizard

LA but only if Manhattan Beach or Dana Point

NYC but only if it's a SFH in Westchester Co or bungalow in The Hamptons

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230181)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 11:40 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

anti-Lagunamo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230308)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 12:40 PM
Author: Gay Idiotic Boltzmann

cannot imagine living in "Westchester".

either live in the middle of nyc or live as far as possible away

"oh we have all the benefits of driving 20 min, to get on a train, to travel 30 min, to get to midtown manhattan, to hail a cab to get to the event... but we ALSO get to pay triple for suburban real estate and have jews and bankers and dorks for neighbors! Best of everything!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230615)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 1:33 PM
Author: contagious puce den gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230949)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 5:36 PM
Author: electric cowardly gay wizard

What benefits is he talking about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232074)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 1:57 AM
Author: contagious puce den gaming laptop

he's mocking people who think that inconvenient-but-accessible proximity to the city is really worth all that much

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233812)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 5:35 PM
Author: electric cowardly gay wizard

I cannot imagine not having a garage/workshop or an enclosed yard, or having strangers living directly above or below me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232072)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:00 PM
Author: light hell

(literal boomer)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232814)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 12:43 PM
Author: pearl organic girlfriend

Why SFH for singlemo? I guess you save on nyc income tax but it's probably outweighed by property tax. Not much of a dating scene unless you're going for desperate housewives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230635)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 1:32 PM
Author: light hell

this is fucking retarded. a nice condo in a good neighborhood in MFH is like $1.5m - not very expensive. why the hell would you liver in suburbia as a single guy with money?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230940)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 3:44 PM
Author: fragrant public bath candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48235848)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 4:05 PM
Author: glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage

where?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48235941)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 4:31 PM
Author: light hell

every neighborhood?

https://streeteasy.com/building/madison-green/30l?featured=1

https://streeteasy.com/building/393-west-end-avenue-new_york/2f?featured=1

https://streeteasy.com/building/nolita-place-condominiums/9d

https://streeteasy.com/building/one-wall-street/718

https://streeteasy.com/building/25-east-69-street-new_york/5b?from_map=1

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236065)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 9:20 PM
Author: glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage

that madison and nolita one areent bad, HOA and fees must be morw than im paying in rent rn in SD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48237242)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 12:46 PM
Author: sienna razzle orchestra pit

nashville. bang broadway sluts in your 180 condo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48230654)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 3:37 PM
Author: Excitant Alpha

i get the sense you dont want a wife or kids. sure, go ahead. but you arent successful in those cities without 10m net worth. and youll probably need to keep working to fit in and make rent or afford a decent lifestyle after 55% taxation rate

do you want a wife and kids? if so, go to the south. dallas or atlanta or something. you can be a big fish there with a few million and solid income



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231553)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 3:46 PM
Author: sienna razzle orchestra pit

this is why I like nashville. Has enough of the "fun, hot girl" element like a ny,la, vegas, (can bang sec girls and bridesmaids ad nauseam) but also has an abundance of beautiful southern girls from upper class families that he can settle down with. get a plantation, join the debutante club, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231603)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 4:19 PM
Author: glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage

nashville fucking sucks dick

hermitage is cool but that city sucks the women are overrated af, the food sucks, and its expensive now and filled with homeless

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231776)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 6:55 PM
Author: sienna razzle orchestra pit

nashville and its suburbs is easily the best metro in the US.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232307)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 7:34 PM
Author: glittery ocher kitchen old irish cottage

How's Franklin?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232457)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 3:48 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone library cumskin

you need a lot more than 10 million net worth to live comfortably in LA.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231608)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 4:28 PM
Author: light hell

Let’s be honest, you really don’t. Most people are happy on quite a bit less

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231816)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 4:36 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone library cumskin

nice house in a decent neighborhood - 3 - 5 million dollars (30k/year property taxes + 20k/year for misc. housing expenses)

nice cars for wife and self - 200k

private school for kids - 100k/year

Food - 1500/month/person if eating out regularly

travel - 50k/year

assuming 5% a year return on 10 million dollars - that 500k is getting used up awfully quick living in LA



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231844)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 4:55 PM
Author: light hell

thread is for a single guy. can find some decent apartment for $4k a month

your other expenses are wild. 50k a year on travel? 2, 100k cars for you and your wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48231918)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:22 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone library cumskin

good luck dating LA women ubering everywhere or pushing a toyota

100k/year in LA is borderline poverty levels -- not flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232901)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 1:36 PM
Author: Excitant Alpha

you shouldnt pick LA period if you care about dating. NYC is leagues better

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48235285)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:01 PM
Author: Excitant Alpha

lol get the fuck outta here man. 250k/year and no savings is fine for a single bro to live life. you dont need 100k car to be happy, esp in NYC, 5k a month in rent gets you a total fine place in the best neighborhoods

OP said "successful" so im gonna assume he's got at least 3 million and makes way more than he spends. thats fine for a single guy who wants to keep working in a HCOL locale

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232819)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 1:59 AM
Author: contagious puce den gaming laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233814)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 5:17 PM
Author: hyperventilating field mad-dog skullcap

I went north for wife/kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236304)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:01 PM
Author: Carnelian Hilarious Indian Lodge

NYC, LA is awful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232574)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 7:10 AM
Author: Charismatic autistic partner

Love the new moniker. Fuck that guy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48234045)



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Date: October 25th, 2024 1:32 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

You seem like a Balboabro, maybe Malibubro - you just haven't found the right spot in LA. There's a place for everyone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48237855)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:11 PM
Author: Bateful multi-billionaire

No one asked the most important question: what is your height? Because that will make a huge difference in which one you’ll fit in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232858)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:22 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone library cumskin

NYC is friendlier to shorts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48232906)



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Date: October 25th, 2024 1:44 AM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

this can't be the case - half of Hollywood is sub-5'10" and half of Hollywood reps are sub-5'6"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48237884)



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Date: October 30th, 2024 10:49 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone library cumskin

as opposed to the super tall biglolers and models and bottles wallstreet jews and nowags?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48261266)



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Date: October 24th, 2024 6:41 PM
Author: light hell

6 foot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48236679)



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Date: October 23rd, 2024 9:51 PM
Author: aggressive office

over 30? NYC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48233071)



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Date: October 25th, 2024 1:49 AM
Author: razzmatazz shaky state ceo

(Prince Akeem)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48237889)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 3:52 PM
Author: Excitant Alpha

nobody asked OP the most important question: what does successful mean?

being UMC and having 2-3m net worth in your 30s is comfortable, but dont expect to feel rich in NYC/LA. those are great places to feel average or poor, even if youre not. if youre a chad and regularly have women approach you looking for secks, then maybe LA/NYC would be 180. but it's likely an incremental upgrade if youre not able to afford a top tier lifestyle there

does successful mean 10-20m net worth? thats when a place like NYC or LA would really get interesting - youd have a condo in the city, and a vacation house somewhere else. you wouldnt feel pressure to work even if you wanted to splash cash and enjoy all the city has to offer. exclusive clubs, restaurants, spontaneous trips with a new broad youre impressing.

my theory is that the middle class and UMC people in these cities are truly suckers. the poor have all sorts of programs to benefit from, and the rich live above the dirty squalor and homelessness. the MC/UMC is grinding away and living above their means to keep up appearances. i dont think you want to do that just to bang a few girls who are slightly hotter than the ones you usually go out with.

so how successful are you? if you'd feel it'd be necessary to maintain a high pressure job, its probably not worth the move. how about you move to a big southern city where you have tons of options and can be a big fish? Atlanta, Houston, Tampa, Miami? you'll probably do better there and benefit from way more personal autonomy without a rat race occupying your time. visit NYC or LA for a few weeks every year and then GTFO out of those hellholes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48254864)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 4:24 PM
Author: fragrant public bath candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48255028)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 4:46 PM
Author: light hell

idk i guess i dont really need to "feel rich" i plan to keep working. i have solid savings and probably can afford 5-6k rent in nyc and restaurants and shit. but i dont need a 3.5m condo to be happy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48255112)



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Date: October 30th, 2024 10:21 PM
Author: Excitant Alpha

just consider who you are competing with. in NYC its billionaires, or guys who have real money to throw at women. the hottest girls will chase that. there will be influencer guys etc. i still think you can do well, but just know if you feel successful in dallas or whatever, you might just be slightly above average in MFH. rent, taxes, and lifestyle creep are real.

i do think relocating to NYC or LA makes sense if youre pushing older 30s though. thats when it gets tough in any other cities if you want to date actively. in NYC and LA you will have way more options. unless youre hideous and need to sexpat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48261147)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 4:26 PM
Author: low-t fortuitous meteor

where should i move

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48255037)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 6:41 PM
Author: Comical Quadroon Coffee Pot

Islington.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48255586)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 6:44 PM
Author: low-t fortuitous meteor

thanks friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48255601)



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Date: October 29th, 2024 8:05 PM
Author: light hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5616523&forum_id=2#48256020)