I made mistakes. Apparently I was cheap. She no longer thinks I'm cheap she just says "you have no soul, you are responsible and behave so sterile". But she said if I ever bought her an apt in minsk she would respect me and think I'm really fucked up. She is in fact a poor girl who lives with her mom. If she accepted me as a man that I am I could stay in that apt when I visit minsk and wouldn't even need to get her a u.s. visa. She also likes to fuck without a condom as long as I pull out.