Author: Thunder Collins

Alright, this post hit home. I turn 36 this weekend and have been seeing a 31 year old. She is a medical resident and has a Chad sounding ex boyfriend. She was lamenting to me last night the fact that all her friends from college have kids and all the other residents are in long-term relationships or are married. She told me that 33 is considered a "senior mother" now, not 35. Dating at this age is still fun and this girl is hot, but it is also a little sad. You never know if the girl is thinking "he checks off enough boxes, I guess he will do." Because, of course, she probably is.

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Date: January 25th, 2016 10:15 PM

Author: Aspie Pickup Line

I said this many times before: Give yourself a chance to love her.

(*you, 37, looking in mirror before wedding, 34 yr old match.com fiance awaits;

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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:15 PM

Author: Thunder Collins

Details: She routinely threatens divorce and has said she will ruin my life if that happens, has physically assaulted me, would scream at me for hours over minor stuff, she would get manic and wouldn't sleep, cried uncontrollably over small stuff. Blames me for everything and refuses to take accountability for her actions. Major rage issues.

Before the baby she wasn't like this. She is very temperamental, but nothing like this. She would have rage episodes, but took mood stabilizers to control them and was pleasant to be around most of time. She is not taking anything and has been hormonal, can't sleep and under extreme stress and it has resulted in her losing it constantly. She is delaying getting back on medication or seeing a therapist.

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Date: March 22nd, 2018 5:15 PM

Author: Thunder Collins

Just got to Vegas for my friend’s bachelor party. I told my wife I was charging my phone in the room and we were going to go to the buffet. This was the response I found when I got back to the room.

https://imgur.com/gallery/iOiZ3

(Rate my wifes mental illness)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35227424)

Wife unilaterally decided to be a SAHM

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35239968)

Somebody arrest APL before he can do any more damage.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35250607)

Author: AUDACITY OF HOPE

Damn, bro. You've got a hot doctor who's 5 years younger than you on your hands. Don't fuck this up because of your insecurities.

"You never know if the girl is thinking "he checks off enough boxes, I guess he will do." Because, of course, she probably is."

Unless you're marrying your college sweetheart when you're young and still all rosy-eyed about love, many marriage couplings boil down to (1) could we co-parent well together,(2) do we share enough common values and interests to fit into each other's lives without major compromises, and (3) do we enjoy sex with each other. If you're getting anything beyond that, you should consider yourself very lucky.

(*you, 37, looking in mirror before wedding, 34 yr old match.com fiance awaits)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35251028)

Whichever mod did that should be [redacted]

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35251041)

Why is a mod not pulling this out of the trash?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35255512)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35251097)

How the fuck would marriage help your situation? How many times to xo bros need to be reminded....

This is an insane response.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35251101)

If he did though, the cr play is not to give up dat commitment to her

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35251107)

ITT: third world marriage economics

ITT: third world pussy economics

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35251113)

And at op's age, I doubt there were all that many amazing, stable, nice, high earning and alwaus pleasant and loyal women for him to choose from.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35259640)

diamond dallas chad tp has been absolutely ON FIRE since his breakup

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35259893)

*runs cold washcloth on face*

*downloads Grindr*

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#35260437)

Date: April 5th, 2019 12:33 AM

Author: Thunder Collins

Wife is pregnant again and I am barely hanging on. She is moody as fuck. Plus my chill new lifestyle job turned out to be more work than I expected. Just grinding away trying to convince myself not to take the exit bag to freedom.

(Thunder Collins - how are you holdin up these days?)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3869664&forum_id=2#38061202)