https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdSjgsa9RtE&t=330s

a minute later candace says

you're so different from the environment that you're now stuck into which is to say,

you are an englishman.

you like to retreat, sort of read your texts, a quiet place with a cigar

chap: yes this is all correct

candace: and then you marry this loud american. you don't like taking pictures, you don't like being seen, you've had to adjust.

chap: yes, it is the meeting of the two cultures, is perfected in our marriage i would say. the bombastic americanism vs the retired english persona has definitely been fine-tuned. but i love america, it goes without saying. i love the american spirit and culture, and you embody that, and it's a lot more exciting than england in a lot of ways. and i love england. but it's melancholic and nostalgic.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5890828&forum_id=2#50054599)