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best way to prep for divorce w 10+ yr marriage & multiple kids?
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:33 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge lib state
other than peper thy angus
wife works, 50/50 custody the goal |
Date: September 11th, 2026 5:34 PM Author: wonderful khaki home (CSLG)
or rather, like CSLG, just make FUCKTONS of money & power through it |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:34 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge ntcr. assume 300-500k/year hhi, wife makes 100k of it (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130504) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:35 PM Author: wonderful khaki home then just pepper thy angus (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130505) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge i consulted with a divorce attorney a few years ago, she said alimony won't be too bad given wife works and if 50/50 custody. the QOL hit will be substantial though (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130509) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM Author: Insecure supple national security agency Don't get divorced with kids. Why would you do that? Only seeing your kids half the time--at most--would be terrible.
Suck it up until they're older. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:37 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge because she sucks. how old is OK to divorce? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130511) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:41 PM Author: Insecure supple national security agency How so? Is it so bad that dealing with it for a few more years is worse than losing your kids 50-90% of the time?
I'd want my youngest to be about 16-17 before I hied to greener pastures. By then, they're their own people. Before that, they need their dad in the picture and I want to be with them. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:44 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge it would be longer than a few years. she has undiagnosed BPD (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130525) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:48 PM Author: Insecure supple national security agency Sorry to hear. Even though it's not going to get better, wouldn't you rather be there for your kids every day than only have them half the time, while they spend the other half (or more--it's often more) with a vengeful, BPD ex-wife and whoever she brings around? Can't you just check out? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130531) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:50 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge I am checked out, but I don't know if it is better for them to have half-time away from BPD or to lower key suffer from it full-time. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130541) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:54 PM Author: provocative macaca you know fully well which is better, although i understand why you would pretend to be stumped on the matter. this whole situation is your doing; don’t dump it on your kids. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130551) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge until when? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130568) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 4:12 AM Author: Chamath *full well (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131329) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:54 PM Author: Insecure supple national security agency Suck it up. It's better for them to have their dad around every day.
What's she going to be up to around them if you're not there? |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:59 PM Author: Drunken Indian Lodge there's a limit to my tolerance
likely BPD breakdowns as she does now |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 6:01 PM Author: Insecure supple national security agency What can you not tolerate? Just check out and ignore that stuff. Be there for your kids. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130571) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM Author: infuriating cheese-eating gunner Divorced women almost always bring strange men around their kids, especially crazy BPD types like your wife. Stick it out if you can just to protect your kids. GTFO after they're old enough to protect themselves. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130569) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 8:41 PM Author: Marvelous cruel-hearted masturbator (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130908) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 8:38 PM Author: Metal lay weed whacker I feel like we’re watching Season 3 of the Hulu short porch documentary being written before our eyes! (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130903) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 8:53 PM Author: emerald dysfunction double fault start compiling evidence on her BPD and start interviewing attorneys in your area (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130932) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 8:55 PM Author: Misunderstood bespoke gaping go find the map to all the cash youve been withdrawing over the past 10 years (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130935) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 9:29 PM Author: my dog can log into xo more often than I can (and he’s neutered!) heights of everyone involved? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50130997) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 10:42 PM Author: honey-headed doobsian headpube 5'5.999999999", 5'5", 4'1", 3'4" (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131138) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 6:07 AM Author: nofapping hilarious base scourge upon the earth No one cares about azns. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131340) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 5:22 AM Author: smoky travel guidebook TREZORS. DON'T. FLOAT (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131338) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 6:16 AM Author: gold water buffalo toaster Just start documenting everything and prepare for a unilateral divorce rape situation. Nothing you can do to remedy this under our current legal system that isnt virtually life/family destroying. you can only mitigate
You either fully give on on the whole "family" & move on when this happens, pay full support 0 visitation + leave your shitty kids to her mercy + %chance strange cocks she will be bringing around them (who she will also subconciously use your kids to entice haha or you just mentally check out and ignore her
Thats what "masculinity" is in the modern day, learning to be more compliant with abuse, slavery, humiliation, degradation under pain of immense financial & legal repurcussions. Remembering always to "be above it" like a silent paternalism
You'll probably have to start $$$ spending all your cash to support your kids and she will eventually stop contributing if she hasn't already.
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Date: September 12th, 2026 1:34 PM Author: Richard Ames Don't get divorced if you have young kids. It isn't good for anyone. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50131780) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 4:02 PM Author: Sapphire Property (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2#50132127) |