If you were to go up to her and suggest, abortion is UGLY, you are really UGLY for having been so careless to need to take an innocent life in the way you have, so HIDEOUSLY.
She would sob uncontrollably for half an hour. That should tell you a little bit about how her mind works.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 1:57 PM Author: Stirring submissive center mad cow disease
Abortion is a horrific sin and an affront to God. Normalizing the industrial destruction of human babies is probably the enemy's greatest victory in his quest to turn people away from God.
With that said, someone who has an abortion is NOT ugly for having an abortion. There is no sin that Jesus's blood was insufficient to pay for. She is loved by God and she should repent and accept His grace.
You're missing the point here. She's not repentant in the slightest. It's a fashion statement for her (pedantically, something even lower and more disgusting). That's it. As far as it goes.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 2:33 PM Author: unhinged cruel-hearted locus
i think this is a bigger deal than people get. people think either there is no hell or that no one goes there, etc. if people got a grapple on this they would act better.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 2:09 PM Author: Indecent supple pozpig
She needs to show repentance to God, not us. Even if you're right, she's not repentant YET. this conclusory hopelessness and lack of belief in grace is as bad.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 2:14 PM Author: Stirring submissive center mad cow disease
She seems aware of the fact she's broken and that she needs God. Whether she's decided yet to accept God's grace, I do not know. But I know it's promising she at least seems aware that it is being offered and that it's a good thing. Plenty of poasters have hardened hearts and hate God, wanting nothing to do with His offer of grace. They are in a much worse spot.
Date: November 4th, 2021 12:11 PM Author: indigo halford
She's not repentant yet, but she has time. Matthew 20:1-16 is pretty clear as to how this works.
Also, while it is not for you to judge her sins (Matthew 7:1-6), at the same time it's probably a good idea to understand the nature of wicked women and the importance of staying away from them:
Proverbs 5:7
Avoid Immoral Women
5 My son, pay attention to my wisdom;
listen carefully to my wise counsel.
2 Then you will show discernment,
and your lips will express what you’ve learned.
3 For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey,
and her mouth is smoother than oil.
4 But in the end she is as bitter as poison,
as dangerous as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.[a]
6 For she cares nothing about the path to life.
She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn’t realize it.
7 So now, my sons, listen to me.
Never stray from what I am about to say:
8 Stay away from her!
Don’t go near the door of her house!
9 If you do, you will lose your honor
and will lose to merciless people all you have achieved.
10 Strangers will consume your wealth,
and someone else will enjoy the fruit of your labor.
11 In the end you will groan in anguish
when disease consumes your body.
12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
If only I had not ignored all the warnings!
13 Oh, why didn’t I listen to my teachers?
Why didn’t I pay attention to my instructors?
14 I have come to the brink of utter ruin,
and now I must face public disgrace.”
15 Drink water from your own well—
share your love only with your wife.[b]
16 Why spill the water of your springs in the streets,
having sex with just anyone?[c]
17 You should reserve it for yourselves.
Never share it with strangers.
18 Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you.
Rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 She is a loving deer, a graceful doe.
Let her breasts satisfy you always.
May you always be captivated by her love.
20 Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman,
Date: November 3rd, 2021 2:07 PM Author: Stirring submissive center mad cow disease
I want to come clean and say, like many of you, I've spend many years blowing my load in girls on hormonal birth control, which generally does not stop conception. Thus, I am guilty of this sin as well.
I've since had a vasectomy in order to free myself from this sin. I'm happy to answer questions about the snip. Summary: it was NBD, zero side effects, and freeing myself from the fear of convening a child accidentally has done wonders for my mental health.
Date: November 3rd, 2021 2:53 PM Author: Stirring submissive center mad cow disease
No doubt that my extra-marital sex is a sin. I pray for forgiveness and ask the Lord to give me a wife or otherwise free from from the pull of this sin.