Date: November 7th, 2026 3:05 AM Author: Historical American (SQQQ)
Similar age and I think for me I have to have a love connection to do the sex now whereas in my 20s I would bark at anything. I don't think you're cooked bro. There are millions upon millions of single ladies. The hard part is sorting through them all. I think when you get older you realize most people, i.e. women and men, are severely mentally retarded and insufferable. So it can be tough to find the one no doubt. But if you put yourself out there you will find something. I think it pays to be picky and go after something you really want as opposed to what's around. If you just go after the women who happen to be around you will likely be disappointed. Find some shared hobby or interest. My buddy loves watching football and he found a wife who loves watching football. Find some commonality vs seducing a waitress and trying to make it work but you don't really have anything in common to begin with.
Date: November 7th, 2026 9:28 AM Author: Soren "Bob" Odenkierkegaard
ever since I hopped on Tirz im far less sexually motivated but I was legit entering sex addict territory, so I'd say my sex drive has regressed to the mean maybe still above average. Its more so the faggy loneliness and realization that I'm living a meaning life without a wife and kids
Date: November 7th, 2026 9:35 AM Author: Historical American (SQQQ)
When you're done whining, pick up the pieces. You're also probably in a caloric deficit from the meds. That can always bum you out to be hypocaloric. If you went to In N Out your feel better.
Don't date a dumdum who's too far beneath you. Find another chick who is a good match for your values and intellect.
Date: November 7th, 2026 9:26 AM Author: Soren "Bob" Odenkierkegaard
yeah im in LA. Problem is 30 something shrew is who I was engaged to and it blew up in the stupidest way possible, still kind of angry at myself for 1) allowing myself to be heart broken as a middleagemo 2) for dwelling on it this long and 3) not lowering my standards and just going for a poor barely literate 20 something
Date: November 7th, 2026 9:37 AM Author: Historical American (SQQQ)
You don't have to philander. Try and meet a good girl. You can go on dates without sleeping with someone. You can just say you don't want to jump into bed. Girls will probably find this endearing and romantic. And if you catch the feels again you can always say you're ready for sex now. You don't have to bring them home from the bar.
Date: November 7th, 2026 9:58 AM Author: Kenneth Play (emotional girth)
finding the right person is hard, bro. and maybe it's even harder actually explicitly trying to find her. the past seems easier in hindsight, like not even trying to find someone seriously, and having some good opportunities and near misses. i guess what i'd say is, you've been real close before, so it could easily happen again. it only takes one. and something good could change, today
Date: November 7th, 2026 10:41 AM Author: Historical American (SQQQ)
I think if you're not looking for it you're less likely to find it. It's better to make a targeted effort to find the one. There's a lot of beautiful single women in this country. Most of them are dumb as bits. Don't just play the field, come up with a strategy. Shared hobbies is usually a good start. A lot times people get together and then a year later they realize one of them likes to get up at 7am and go hiking and the other is a couch potato. People really don't try and find a good match. They just glom on to the nearest retard. If you want to sit around and watch TV all day, don't date someone who's always active. Easier said than done. People do stupid shit all the time and then it doesn't work out.