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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:37 PM Author: canary parlor Years of unresolved issues coming to a head. We're going to give it one last shot (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130185) |
Date: September 11th, 2026 3:38 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain just go to therapy. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130189) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: canary parlor We've been in therapy for 6 months (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130197) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain what does that cost (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130210) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: canary parlor $300/session + a marriage because I don't think it's helping at all (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130214) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain is parking free at least? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130226) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: canary parlor MFH (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130233) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:47 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain can you street park or do you need to do a garage? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130237) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:49 PM Author: canary parlor We don't drive to therapy. We can walk/cab/subway. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130240) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:49 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain subwaying to therapy tp? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130242) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: canary parlor Not bad (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130243) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:52 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain do you have to get a babysitter for the kids? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130253) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: canary parlor Wtf is this line of questions (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130257) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:55 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain just trying to help. where are the kids while you are at therapy? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130259) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:03 PM Author: Very tactful elastic band brethren you sound super AI, poaster. State your composition before we engage you further (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135172) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:27 PM Author: cobalt know-it-all cuckoldry lol u deserve everything u get for agreeing to mossaderapy u spineless fag (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130335) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:26 PM Author: Ruddy cuck tiNtcr!!!
Marriage counselors are just the HR department for the modern misandry industry. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:21 PM Author: Vermilion Aggressive Trust Fund (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130466) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 2:12 PM Author: appetizing snowy juggernaut (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135255) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:38 PM Author: Hateful gold gas station therapy how fat is she (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130191) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: canary parlor She is 5'4"/120lbs (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130195) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: tripping sanctuary You need to suck it up and fuck her more. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130194) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:40 PM Author: canary parlor We fuck like 3x/month. You're probably right. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130201) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: tripping sanctuary Try it. Eventually you'll like it and your ballz will feel better too. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130207) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:24 PM Author: Vibrant prole striped hyena happy wife = lay the pipe. it's not complicated (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130328) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: Erotic copper hell mad cow disease Jesus Christ, you’re only 38? You’re young, brother. You have your whole life in front of you. Don’t waste the opportunities presented. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130196) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: garnet marketing idea stain dont be a dick man (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130199) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: Erotic copper hell mad cow disease I’d give up a lot to be 38 again. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130211) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: canary parlor Taking advice on what you would do if you were 38 again (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130247) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: canary parlor Young attractive women love divorced 38 years olds (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130203) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:07 PM Author: Bisexual Hunting Ground in eastern europe it's a plus, yes (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130699) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:40 PM Author: frum confused piazza Blow that Nigga head smoove off (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130200) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: Laughsome market skinny woman (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130206) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: electric ticket booth marriage is a giant mistake and should be outright banned for loser clique members (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130209) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface *all of humanity (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130216) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: canary parlor I should have been gay (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130245) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: opaque nudist queen of the night Crazy how we’re all still 38 but turning 42 in a few months. Age is flame (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130212) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: canary parlor I turn 40 next year FMA (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130217) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: opaque nudist queen of the night Congrats. Gorgeous age (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130222) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: canary parlor 30s have been gay af tbh (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130228) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:51 PM Author: Swashbuckling Haunting Dog Poop Theater Stage (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130249) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: Pontificating giraffe sweet tailpipe (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130231) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:58 PM Author: transparent mind-boggling degenerate rigpig (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130263) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:21 PM Author: Umber Concupiscible Mad-dog Skullcap (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130465) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: Elite Trump Supporter Address describe problems (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130218) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: canary parlor You could boil it down to communication. We don't get along. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130225) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: Naked shrine circlehead how did you not realize this before marriage? or she changed a lot? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130256) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:01 PM Author: canary parlor Seems like she suppressed her disagreeable side until after marriage (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130272) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: tripping sanctuary She just wants more dicking down. Get back in there. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130280) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:10 PM Author: electric ticket booth women aren't like that. trust me, i know these things (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130291) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:15 PM Author: canary parlor You are a redpill/incel guy? Running 2014 schtick? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130302) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:29 PM Author: electric ticket booth big talk from someone with a failing marriage 🤣 (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130343) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: passionate orchestra pit dysfunction (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130401) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) Being this age is so weird. You see people experiencing the exact same thing you did. But when it happened to you it came out of nowhere. After your inevitable divorce, you'll see the same pattern you're experiencing happen to tons of other guys. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130714) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:55 PM Author: sienna razzle-dazzle french chef potus Many such cases. If you don’t have kids, just gonna say divorce is 180. If she sucks now she is only going to suck worse in the future. If you can still exit and find a less awful 🐦🧠 (I know, I know), consider it. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130260) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:48 PM Author: canary parlor I'm sure it's great on the other side. Lots of guilt and regret at this point. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135220) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:23 PM Author: Swashbuckling Haunting Dog Poop Theater Stage Tension is good you’re just not fucking her and then you’re trying to close tension loops with talking and “communicating”
All gay, be seen less and go talk to other women irl so she can sense it on you
Women can only love you in your absence get away from her and maybe start cheating a bit to strengthen your relationship dynamic
Also I would say she’s very likely already cheating or has her backup monkey branch on deck so you need to be the one creating the push pull dynamic as you’re deep into hers just solely by going to Jewish therapy daycare horseshit
Women can only experience power dynamics through abuse and control mechanisms, you are in a cycle that she has created and now she has no interest since you can no longer polarize her feminine retardation by being outside of the insane retard birdbrain abuse mechanism
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:29 PM Author: yellow area He needs to be dicking her down and using her like a whore (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130348) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:03 PM Author: canary parlor We fucked twice this weekend (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135079) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: canary parlor She's 100% not cheating and I highly doubt she has a backup monkey branch on deck but thx for the toxicity. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135078) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 7:47 PM Author: Swashbuckling Haunting Dog Poop Theater Stage (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135986) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:13 PM Author: Racy khaki international law enforcement agency hall Incredible poast/moniker synergy (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135184) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:04 PM Author: Green lodge I’m in a happy marriage with a 40 year old woman. Give me your issues and I will advise (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130277) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:47 PM Author: cocky incel im gay (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130388) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:03 PM Author: Green lodge Me too brother — did you miss where I said I was married to a 40 yr old woman? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130422) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:07 PM Author: Avocado aromatic alpha house (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130431) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:29 PM Author: Vermilion Aggressive Trust Fund 1. I dislike the overuse of this trope, but it's fitting here and I can't believe no one has said it yet: poast/moniker synergy
2. Kids? How long have you been married?
3. Do you want to save the marriage?
4. To what extent are the issues your fault? Hers? Both?
5. My only advice is that people almost never meaningfully change. If anything, they just become more of who they already are. So, you can accept whatever is going on and work within the confines of that reality. Or, you can hit the bricks. Just don't expect her to start "communicating" better or whatever. LJL at that. One caveat is that having young kids is stressful, and people get back to more of a baseline once they're a little older. (Is that applicable to you?) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:06 PM Author: canary parlor No kids yet thankfully. Married a couple years. I want to save it some days and ready to burn it down and rebuild others. We are equally at fault here - I should have been more proactive about things, she withheld a lot to get the ring.
Your advice echoes advice from my closest friends: either pick her and the relationship as it is now or get out. |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:29 PM Author: Fragrant Locus Legal Warrant no kids? RNR (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135194) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:42 PM Author: canary parlor RNR? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135214) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:53 PM Author: Racy khaki international law enforcement agency hall run, n——, run (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135224) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 2:09 PM Author: Vermilion Aggressive Trust Fund First, thank God that you don't (yet) have kids with her.
Anyway, what exactly is the problem? Is it something that can reasonably be solved or that you can deal with? If not, count yourself as lucky you're finding out now and not something that you're stewing on at 3 am while changing your baby's diaper. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:08 PM Author: Bisexual Hunting Ground lesbians have the highest divorce rates. women can't stand women either (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130703) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:16 PM Author: Swashbuckling Haunting Dog Poop Theater Stage She’s out there getting FFFFFFFFFffffFFFfffFffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuccked right now (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130726) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 11:50 PM Author: bateful resort give yourself a chance to love her (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50131226) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 4:11 PM Author: 180 violet famous landscape painting church (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50132151) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: Brussels Sprout (Apropos of the Wet Snow) dying would be less painful than what you will live to tell about (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135098) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: charismatic unholy box office perimenopause is disastrous, and it's accelerating because of birdbrains consuming online content about how they should all leave their husbands (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135128) |