i rate you as--

Doobs: Hey.

me: yo

Doobs: can you tell me if a girl was checking me out?

I'm usually OK at this.

but want your opinion

me: i probably couldn't tell

Doobs: Oh

I'll try anywya.

way

me: kk

Doobs: So, I had been looking at her every so often. We were a row of desk apart but no one between us.

Subtle glances.

however, once we made eye contact.

and she broke it by scanning my body, taking longer around my legs.

me: sounds like she was checking you out

Doobs: before facing forward again.

Ok.

She isn't on Facebook. I do not know how to proceed. :(

me: do you sit in the same place every class

Doobs: Yes

she has never sat there, though.

I sat down after her, though.

there is this girl that always sits behind me.

I just Fb requested her.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20541690)

me: lol

Doobs: so she found out

and was silly angry, not actually upset

tu sabe?

Anyway, I joked about maybe I'll send it in so people could buy it in a future edition of the magazine.

I donno why but she literally rolled over laughing.

me: lulz

csb

Doobs: Wait

so I posted this on her Fb wall:

So far, your video has received seven views and (just?) one 'like' on YouTube. I'll let you speculate on his or her username.

she said: "[Doobs], you're asking for trouble."

How do I respond?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20541743)

Thanks for taking the time to read through this...I was hoping you could provide a little bit of help, I understand we may be a little similar in some regards in how we behave, so any advice you could provide would mean that much more to me. Also, I'm sorry that my first email has to be about something like this.

There's this girl I really like (and I know that sounds sappy but be prepared, it gets worse) and she's off to UVa this year and I'm stuck here. I jokingly told her a status she had on Facebook was boastful the other day. She didn't respond to that (part of a longer message) but the next time I looked, the status was wiped from her page. She commented on a photo of us together with my name in all-caps. Of course, reading into that is definitely over analyzing but I mean to illustrate that our contact the last several weeks has been limited to online chats.

The girl (lets call her Jane) and I had met once before, at a friend's party, where we talked for a few hours. That was several months ago. We share several mutual friends through a club connection. Jane's party started on Friday. This is what happened afterward.

Jane's dancing really closely on me and a few more doods at her birthday party and encouraging me to keep going -> Jane telling our friend she'd never hook up with any of the people from his parties (I was walking with them outside at the time) -> Being partners in a frisbee game and constantly high-fiving and drunken friendliness -> Her randomly telling me to take my shirt off, as we relax outside at night. I refused. -> Jane sharing a beer w/ me -> Her putting 2 beer caps in my chest pocket and rubbing them down and in, our eyes locking -> We woke up in our mutual friend's living room and proceeded to read porn magazines, laugh and she talked about her vagina and made several analogies, liking mine the best -> A long story but to shorten it: her telling our friend that and myself that she isn't marketing herself to me.

As I've told the others I've shared this with, I have no experience taking things like this further. All my relationships have stemmed from gradually getting to know a girl, connecting on many levels.

To make this more complicated (but maybe it isn't...I could be very inept, I've never had a party hookup) she has a boyfriend that will be going to law school with her (he is c/o 2012, she is 2013...same school), he wasn't at the parties in question though and never came up in conversation

Basically what I'd like to know is did I blow an opportunity, and if so, what should I do in the future regarding her and future signs like those I may have not acted on.

Please feel free to ask questions, as I'd really like the most accurate feedback you can provide. I'll be honest.

Thanks again,

Doobs

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reading comp brother

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20542025)

me: ya

you only live once

Doobs: but imma see her like 5 days a week for the rest of the year

and at least one a week for the next 2 years

i'll tell the girl @ [redacted]

when in d.c.

i need to tell her

me: yep dooo it

Doobs: what's the best way?

to approach it

me: i have no idea man

my relationships are dysfunctional

Doobs: how would u want a dood to tell u?

eye contact is probably important

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20541942)

im loling over here

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20542009)

me: haha sounds good

she cares what you think

Doobs: You think so?

me: sounds like it

unless she's just obsessed with her appearance

prob a combo

Doobs: the friend said "...and other stuff that girls say when they like a guy" but I donno if he's just saying that.

of course I automatically think he's lying or wayyy exaggerating.

Anyway, I'm probably the last person to know...I probably did know too but I forgot. What class(es) are you taking?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20541982)

me: hey sry was out before

Doobs: np

me: i forget what q u asked

Doobs: what is tcr when girl says I think I look what?

me: what?

Doobs: what do I say

when a girl says that

me: when she says what.

Doobs: and she asks "do i look fat?"

do I look fat?

me: oh

i think 'no'

Doobs: ty

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932479&forum_id=2#20542177)