That said I already finished my second book this month but haven't made a thread about it.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#36210191)

It won't help you become a PUA, but it really will help you from shooting yourself in the foot before you even get out of the gate.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#36210226)

Did you make this one them?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#36770856)

It might even be helpful to make a thread on it, if parts of it seem like BS (and I suspect that'd be the case) tell us which parts seem like BS to you, it'd probably be helpful to test your takeaways against the rest of the boards'.

Full disclosure, I haven't read this book, but it seems like a sincere, on point, recommendation

I have read books that I found helpful with this sort of thing, if you're interested, I'll give a qualified pointer to what I found helpful

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#36770900)

I've reached Part III. It's much better. But it took 50 pages to get there, in which he communicates little.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#36771178)

Good readers read graciously.

If you only take things away from good writers, you're shutting yourself off from most of the world's wisdom

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#36771296)

most of it seems pretty intuitive - "women are cats, men are dogs" etc. i weakly agree with everything he says but i can't see how it translates into practice

any stories of how its really worked

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#40171064)

I was needy without knowing it. Basically, the book changed my entire perspective on M/F relationships.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#40171136)

but the thing that's kind of "meh" is that basically he suggests that there's a lot of girls (inc those that we think are out of our league) that'd date us if we just didn't shoot ourselves in the foot. I think that's true but I was hoping he'd have some stuff to help me get to the next level

i.e., once you stop being needy, lame, and are fairly confident regardless of station in life, then what to improve on oneself

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#40171149)

Or needy in general, I suppose.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#40171161)

i get that Corey, but what about winning over the crowd that isn't already kinda won over

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3997378&forum_id=2#40171188)