They had their end of year get together here. Grilling out by the pool. I made plans to be out of the house all day with my boys so it was just female women there. First off, wife calls and says they need me to come home and light the grill. No big deal, it's hectic and noisy but there are plenty of moms chaperoning, drinking wine out of their big stainless steel mugs they all have.
Spend all day out and about thingdoing, get home at 9 pm and they're still going. Son goes out to the pool area and apparently told some of the girls "wouldn't it be sick if you were all bottomless in the pool and I snorkeled around looking at and grabbing your butts?", the girls got creeped out and told one of the moms and she made a huge drunken scene. The mom was using lib terms like "rape culture" and stuff and saying my son should be arrested. We had to call her husband to come drive her home and he said she turns really liberal when she's drunk.
When i was like 7 or 8 or 10 my grandpa had a pool and we went there and had girls our age over and were watching them change in the sauna and he caught us and grabbed us by the hair and dragged us out. I think its normal for boys to want to see girls butts and other areas down there you just can't get caught