👉 You told me you're a male, and identify as straight.

👉 You told me you participated in some kind of sexual activity with another male (although you wouldn't say what-- and that's understandable).

👉 You told me you enjoyed the activity.

👉 You told me your concern is whether this was "gay" or makes you gay.

Sexuality is rarely as clear-cut or black-and-white as that, and is often described as a spectrum. Based on what you've shared, I think we could venture to say youu may not be *100%* straight.

If you shared more information with me about what the specific acts were (and how tall the other guy was), we could really dive more into this. Just say the word.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876779&forum_id=2#49957995)

In practical terms:

One encounter: easily “experimented,” “drunk,” “curious,” “situational,” etc.

Two or three: still not automatically gay, but harder to describe as a one-off.

Five to ten: now it looks like a pattern of same-sex sexual interest.

Ten-plus, especially if voluntary, repeated, and something you seek out: most people would reasonably infer

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876779&forum_id=2#49958142)

Now please, what was his name?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876779&forum_id=2#49958552)