Date: July 25th, 2026 2:51 PM Author: razzmatazz selfie
Yeah if her other man is birdshit he’s only putting up with a fat bitch who just gave birth in order to get access to the child. Honestly a black guy would be safer from the playroom hotdog perspective
Date: July 25th, 2026 2:54 PM Author: Nudist marketing idea
It’s insane to me why this dude would target her. He’s a normal good looking bro. My kid is 9 months old. There’s a crib in the room I found his shoes and business shirt. If I did something like that, it would be one night stand, but it sounds like they’re in some relationship and he has aspirations of moving into my place. I have a very very nice place. Maybe he thinks she’s rich. Lol
Date: July 25th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: razzmatazz selfie
The best way is to not cheatmo and blow up your family. This kid’s boihole is gonna be busted (to the extent any of this is real which we all know it’s sloppy flame based on that last vacation thread) but luckily you can start over with the new chick and have a kid and try not fall in love
Date: July 28th, 2026 7:06 AM Author: Carnelian Soggy Range
Not a family lawmo but seems like it’s too late for this, given that the kid met him and he’s evidently moving in. Would a court really order that a person who’s already met the kid can’t be around the kid or move into the house?
Date: July 27th, 2026 10:09 PM Author: Nudist marketing idea
Update - she now wants him to move in. She has been dating this guy for a few weeks. I will now be financing my wife and her husband apparently. She also has contacted a lawyer and wants half my take home pay. Seems like she’s going to serve me with papers soon. This should be fun a few years.
The only silver lining is things are going well with my subordinate. We remain in love.
Date: July 29th, 2026 6:17 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
He deserves this
His innocent children don't
This was all predicted a year ago
Every time Rage Problems poasts I think about OhNoes poasting about how he thinks it's flame because it's so ordinary. I still can't decide myself. This is all playing out exactly as expected, but without the fanfare you'd expect from flame.
Date: July 28th, 2026 7:29 AM Author: Carnelian Soggy Range
i don't think he's flame. if he is, he's very good flame. i did something very similar to him back in 2020, and goddamn it if he doesn't sound exactly like me back then.
is op really muscadine wine? i forget what he was poasting as when he started making threads about his subordinate.
Date: July 28th, 2026 8:17 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
It’s not flame. This is my real life sadly. I am not muscadine wine. I can’t say much about her taking up with another dude obviously since I’m already with my subordinate. But having him around my kid already behind my back and wanting him to move in is crazy. I have a key and could have walked in on them. Like a month ago my wife was literally asking if I’d be willing to give her my semen so that she could have another kid from me even if we aren’t staying together. So this just started and this guy already wants to move into my place. He’s apparently even willing to somehow financially compensate me to do so. So she’s rushed into this. I can’t imagine this is going to end well. But I may have some opportunity to get this whole thing over and settled for a reasonable amount financially due to her somehow being in love. But I can’t get over the kid angle. He’ll be with them more than I am and in my place. That is a tough pill to swallow.
Date: July 28th, 2026 8:26 AM Author: Carnelian Soggy Range
JFC what a mess. all i can say is thank god my wife never did anything like this or i'd have possibly killed her and myself.
your wife seems to be acting erratically, which i guess is obvious and didn't need to be said. this whole situation is pretty fucked up.
are you and your subordinate shacked up or do you have plans to be? i assume you're still closeted at work, so maybe you can't.
you got this advice before from me and others, but be very wary of your subordinate. something is "off" about a woman who would be willing to break up a young family. my wife said that to me right after she caught me and i told her i was leaving, and she was right. the woman i left for is extremely selfish and self-centered - used to being told how beautiful she is and having guys pay for this and do that for her, etc. and it shows. turns out she had a disabled kid when she was 22 and she wrote him off. she also left her 13 year old kid in florida to move in with me. anyway, just look for red flags, brother. she went right back to florida, in her 40s with no job and not having worked since she was like 28, living off alimony, bouncing her loose pussy from man to man, according to what friends tell me.
Date: July 28th, 2026 11:38 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
We don’t live in the same city so we can’t be shacked up. I need to be here so that I can be close to my kid. But we live close enough that it’s a quick flight. She came out for 10 days recently. I just went and hung out with the kid without her around and then came back later. And I go to her and we go on vacation etc. But yes the relationship is closeted other than with our closest friends. She actually has a really good head on her shoulders, has been a calming influence in my life. Plus she’s hot. And thanks man, I appreciate that.
Date: July 28th, 2026 11:45 AM Author: Carnelian Soggy Range
i assume she's going to eventually move? you should probably wait to introduce her to your kid (i assume you already were). maybe 6-8 months would be good, if not a full year, and then work your way up to her moving in or whatever.
i did not do that, i moved out in october 2020 and the other lady moved in on like november 6 and i got into it with my wife over introducing the kids to her, etc. i was such a shithead at the time. i tell you this so you are aware of what can happen (may not be all that applicable to you since almost all of it was driven by my alcoholism) - i neglected my kids badly for about 8 months (october to june) while i was bad off with booze: i left my kids in the apt one night to run across the street to get beer/wine and my older son, 5, had woken up and was in the living room bawling when i got back. my gf/fiancee went out for a few hours and came home and the older kid was on the couch looking dejected and she said "hey, what's wrong?" and he said "well i kept asking my dad if he'd take me to CVS to get a toy and he kept telling me we will go soon, but he kept drinking more and more and now he's in the bed sleeping" and she took him out and bought him a superman or marvel action figure. we took the kids to hershey park (when i had an ankle monitor LOL) and we stayed there for like 45 mins, i rode two roller coasters with the older kid and maybe one by myself and then we left. when i think about that stuff, i feel very bad about myself. don't ever get to that point.
Date: July 28th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: Nudist marketing idea
For work reasons, it will likely be hard for her to be here full time. At some point we will have to figure it out, but we may have to always kinda split time between the two cities for the foreseeable future. Yeah, I don’t really have any desire to introduce her to the kid anytime soon. That’s my wife’s decision is so perplexing. I’ve been in love and with the subordinate for several months and it hasn’t crossed my mind. Meanwhile my wife not only introduces him to the kid but even wants him to move in after weeks? I can’t wrap my mind around that. Just date the dude when I’m watching the kid or babysitter etc. until it’s been like a year.
Date: July 28th, 2026 12:19 PM Author: Carnelian Soggy Range
yea you know what, a woman doing what she's doing is a huge red flag. it's somewhat par for the course for men to do retarded bullshit (like i did or like your wife is doing), but it's another for a woman to do it. double standard and unfair i guess, but true.
Date: July 28th, 2026 11:40 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
That’s what I asked her. My place really is amazing. He probably lives in a much worse place and they think they’re in love and destined for this and this is his opportunity to move in and make it all happen.
Date: July 28th, 2026 9:53 AM Author: Fragrant office toilet seat
Going from still trying to work it out to separated to dating someone new and ready to move in together in the span of a few weeks is wild. Why is your ex so enthusiastic about starting another long term relationship already? And how does she have time for that while watching your kid? Where is he while your wife is going on these dates?
How long did you and her take to go from dating to in a relaitonship to moving in together to married?
Date: July 28th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
She spends all of her time socializing and just brings the kid everywhere. My wife is good looking but it’s still insane to me that some dude is like I’m gonna start a romance next to a small child.
I dated her for five years before we got married, but we moved in relatively quickly. But we didn’t have kids and she kept a separate place for the first like year just in case, just a different situation.
Date: July 28th, 2026 11:47 AM Author: Carnelian Soggy Range
this guy 100% has something wrong with him. no idea what it is, but there is something.
she is also clearly not herself. you traumatized her badly (not trying to make you feel bad), and part of this i think is she's not in her right mind and she also wants to hurt you or get back at you. that has to be going on as well. this situation is not going down very well, unfortunately.
Is she smart enough to see that a guy very likely isn't a great long term prospect when he's (a) the first guy she happened to start something with, just weeks after her marriage dissolved (presumably...), and (b) strangely eager to date and move in with a newly single mom?
Date: July 29th, 2026 3:18 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
I actually don’t think so. Her mood got better a few weeks ago and as recently as a month ago she was still very jealous and stalking me, asked if she could have my semen for a second kid even if we don’t stay together. I legit think this started no longer than 4-8 weeks ago max, and probably even 2-3 weeks.
Date: July 29th, 2026 6:21 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
The only part of me that thinks it might be flame is because it's so ordinary. But that just means it's impossible to tell. This guy might as well be talking about eating a ham and cheese sandwich. It's so by the numbers.
Date: July 28th, 2026 7:17 PM Author: razzmatazz selfie
The vacation thread made it seem flame but the rest all seems true, even including this. Hard to say. But whether this is flame or not, this story is playing out all over America right now. Same shit nearly happened to me last year with Asian Pussy. The affair partner seemed like she had it all but as zurich noted: something is off about a woman that would break up a family. Luckily my wife forgave me and I cut off contact with the AP. I wonder how it turned out for her. Once in a blue moon I get a little devil on my shoulder saying "reach out"
Date: July 29th, 2026 3:30 AM Author: Big Effete University
i think i read all these threads but i guess i missed whether the wife ever really found out what was going on with the subordinate or if op just checked out without her knowing much
Date: July 29th, 2026 8:18 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
She didn’t. She actually seems to think I have no one now. Told me yesterday that she hopes I can find someone new too one day. If I had to guess, she probably thinks it was just a fling or I was out banging randos. Once I go public one day with the subordinate I am sure she will highly suspect it was her, but it doesn’t really matter anymore. She’ll probably be glad because I’m sure she has some level of guilt over this.
The weird thing is I’m suddenly the good guy. It’s an easy story now that she moved in with some random dude when we were separated and I of course had to move on, found the subordinate. The only slightly worrying thing is when I told my closest coworker yesterday that happens to also be a solid personal confidant and friend (wanted more recommendations on family lawyers), he was trying to cheer me up and was like no one died is the good thing and put it in perspective you have a healthy kid and a great job etc etc and you’ll find someone one day - I think (subordinate’s name) would be a good match. So now he’s going to feel like the match maker when it comes out and there’s an easy story in there.
Date: July 29th, 2026 6:28 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
I don't think you realize how hard it is to find sane, attractive young-to-middle aged women.
Remember how Milhouse's dad initiated the separation, and his option was a slore, while his Milhouse's mom was getting courted by Chad, and the Dad wound up begging to reunite?
This is how it works IRL. This is what everyone told you. Quality women are in short supply. When they're available, they get snapped up quick. Divorced scumbag Dads that cheated on their doting wives are abundant.
Welcome to the suck you retard. Don't say no one told you.
Date: July 29th, 2026 8:15 AM Author: Nudist marketing idea
I’m already in something new. The subordinate has had a calming influence on my life. I sometimes wonder if I didn’t get involved with her and gave an honest second try with my wife if it would have worked out, but I don’t think it would have. She was really unhappy and resentful and being around her was a nightmare for over a year before anything happened with the subordinate. So there’s a good chance this would have happened to me eventually anyway. Now at least I already have another serious relationship that I’m actually incredibly satisfied with. It’s the kid situation that makes it tough to swallow. I may have moved on from my wife but I hadn’t yet from the family structure. I wouldn’t think to introduce the kid to the subordinate anytime soon. The fact that she did after a few weeks with the new guy is mind blowing to me.
Date: July 29th, 2026 8:53 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
You're justifying your irritation and framing this as being about concern for your kids because you know this is on you. You can't feign suprise at her reaction when everyone told you this would blow up and drag the kids into it.
She was depressed or having some sort of emotional crisis based on her change in attitude. It's understandable you'd want out. But you knew that doing so risk sending her into a tailspin and your kids would be weaponized. You knew this and proceeded anyway. Own it. You're not a victim.
Date: July 29th, 2026 9:56 AM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
Divorcees (if you can confirm the husband caused the divorce like OP) and widows are CR.
Nurses and flight attendants are unmarriagable past like 25. The good ones get locked down quick, the remainder have the highest levels of insanity. 180 to casually pumo tho.