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Have you found that “chicks dig assholes” or is it just phenotype irl

Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is j...
Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
I thought this thread was about eating ass
ocher sneaky criminal boiling water
  08/15/26
same not flame
sick aquamarine tattoo sanctuary
  08/15/26
Do you dig assholes bro? With your tongue maybe?
ocher sneaky criminal boiling water
  08/15/26
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haunting corner cuckoldry
  08/15/26
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Carnelian property telephone
  08/15/26
100% same
maize concupiscible hall
  08/16/26
If a chick is into you their birdbrain doesn’t see it ...
soul-stirring volcanic crater
  08/15/26
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Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does ...
Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
xo thoroughly addressed and solved this problem years ago. t...
Chest-beating hyperventilating hospital
  08/15/26
...
Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all s...
Wonderful self-centered range useless brakes
  08/15/26
i'm ready to learn
Chest-beating hyperventilating hospital
  08/15/26
dare I say, based
motley legal warrant dopamine
  08/15/26
Cr
dashing state
  08/15/26
imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-respo...
Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
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gunneratttt
  08/15/26
do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is hap...
Black Vengeful Plaza
  08/15/26
they dig guys with bottomless confidence, whom betas conside...
Disgusting clown messiness
  08/15/26
It is both at once. You can only pull off being an asshole i...
Frisky lime locus
  08/15/26
(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a ...
Wonderful self-centered range useless brakes
  08/15/26
imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still...
Cracking vermilion candlestick maker dingle berry
  08/15/26
i think they're more into abs and pecs and shoulders ime
it's all so judaic
  08/15/26
I would never be interested in a nice (aka weak) guy, no mat...
dashing state
  08/15/26
Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps wit...
Aqua location
  08/15/26
iirc this is a reference to Console Gaming
Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
Girls like assertive and confident men. Dorks are very bi...
gunneratttt
  08/15/26
I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the...
Brindle sadistic ticket booth
  08/15/26
Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whe...
gunneratttt
  08/15/26
chicks dig OYT even as I deny my Essence to them. lol sluts.
Ebony Internal Respiration
  08/15/26
You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her...
Sexy Razzle-dazzle Trailer Park Mad Cow Disease
  08/15/26
...
Cracking vermilion candlestick maker dingle berry
  08/16/26
I definitely know assholes that have punched way above their...
maize concupiscible hall
  08/16/26
they enjoy emotional and physical abuse. they are gratifi...
Electric Dragon Brunch
  08/16/26


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Date: August 15th, 2026 8:56 AM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth

Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is just a Jock or Tall Guy with a 7”+ dick and the Nice Guy has a worse phenotype. Rarely is there a sharp distinction in their Personalities afaict.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069333)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:00 AM
Author: ocher sneaky criminal boiling water

I thought this thread was about eating ass

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069336)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:01 AM
Author: sick aquamarine tattoo sanctuary

same not flame

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069337)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:12 AM
Author: ocher sneaky criminal boiling water

Do you dig assholes bro? With your tongue maybe?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069349)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:11 AM
Author: haunting corner cuckoldry



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069348)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:23 PM
Author: Carnelian property telephone



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069646)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:05 PM
Author: maize concupiscible hall

100% same

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50071105)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: soul-stirring volcanic crater

If a chick is into you their birdbrain doesn’t see it as “being an asshole”, they see it as “being decisive” or “knowing what he wants”

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069388)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:34 AM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069510)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth

yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does that mean in practice and why does it matter? like does a Nice Loser not know where to go for dinner or whatever and Asks the Woman and they go back and forth for hours?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069512)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:54 AM
Author: Chest-beating hyperventilating hospital

xo thoroughly addressed and solved this problem years ago. the meta has moved on. do try to keep up

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069537)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 11:57 AM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069542)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 12:08 PM
Author: Wonderful self-centered range useless brakes

Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all socially incapable and ugly losers who are addicted to screens say because it allows them to justify not trying to improve their social skills and instead they can just keep being screen addicted losers. Autists don’t get: 1) that girls register flirting as effort and balls, and guys who flirt clumsily or badly will still get more points than guys who are too scared and in their heads to try at all. 2) beyond purely spur of the moment, after 2 am and still at the bar pure hook up contexts every girl is primarily evaluating for resource extraction. So a guy who can credibly seem confident and self-assured will always help his cause immensely and way more than a guy who drops 5% of his bodyfat to get under 15% or who wears lifts to appear 1.5” taller. And 3) yes there is a subset of guys who can literally say nothing and/or completely botch any kind of social capability test and still fuck girls whose names they don’t bother to learn, but they are generally either very rare super elite 1/100k level phenotypes or they’re fucking way down relative to their phenotypes looksmatch or both. I guess I get why a balding 5’9” nerd would fantasize about easily fucking an endless parade of anonymous 6s, but I encourage you to dream a little bigger.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069551)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 12:09 PM
Author: Chest-beating hyperventilating hospital

i'm ready to learn

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069555)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:23 PM
Author: motley legal warrant dopamine

dare I say, based

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069645)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:16 PM
Author: dashing state

Cr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069791)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:39 PM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth

imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-responsive imho (jmo). I was just trying to understand who these "assholes" are. Guys who get laid nbd irl don't seem like bigger assholes than anyone else afaik

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069834)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069935)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 6:53 PM
Author: Black Vengeful Plaza

do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is happening anymore. it's whether you give them resources or you increase their social media status

i have no idea what u people are talking about tbh

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50070017)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:26 PM
Author: Disgusting clown messiness

they dig guys with bottomless confidence, whom betas consider assholes, and tbf they often are.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069650)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:31 PM
Author: Frisky lime locus

It is both at once. You can only pull off being an asshole if you have a good phenotype, else youre referred to as an asshole/miserable/bitter.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069660)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 1:52 PM
Author: Wonderful self-centered range useless brakes

(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a dim, incurious mind and never spent much time observing them and thinking about why they are effective)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069693)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 2:38 PM
Author: Cracking vermilion candlestick maker dingle berry

imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still fringe losers who are disagreeable and abrasive, and also many lawyers, who are both assholes and yet not attractive to women

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069747)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:18 PM
Author: it's all so judaic

i think they're more into abs and pecs and shoulders ime

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069793)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 3:18 PM
Author: dashing state

I would never be interested in a nice (aka weak) guy, no matter how attractive, successful, etc. Just not my thing.



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069794)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:37 PM
Author: Aqua location

Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps with dudes who want an easy lay. They interpret getting fucked and ghosted as the guy being an asshole or "playing games." That's why so many chicks have shit like "not here for hookups, tired of men playing games" etc in their profiles.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069939)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:44 PM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth

iirc this is a reference to Console Gaming

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069947)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:39 PM
Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)

Girls like assertive and confident men.

Dorks are very biased to classify some dudebro as an asshole because 1) Sour grapes and 2) They got bullied by someone and associate anyone similar with being an asshole.

Dorks will call a Shane Gillis good hearted dudebro an asshole because they can't distinguish between them and evil jocks, and they don't want to understand the difference because they hate them for getting pussy and have crafted a mental fortress that the reason they get zero pussy is because they're better humans.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069942)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:50 PM
Author: Brindle sadistic ticket booth

I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the nice guy with a good phenotype getting screwed over after like hs. In hs there are Scumbags who have natural game and stuff and the Jock who doesn't have his head in the game can't close the deal iirc. In college idk it's a hard reset. irl is a harder reset. everything just gets pre-screened on phenotype.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069952)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 6:15 PM
Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)

Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whether bad phenotypes wind up as low condidence nice guys or whether low confidence nice guys are categorically bad phenotype. I subscribe to your school of thought that it starts with phenotype and their nature + nurture leads to this. Either way, of course you don't see high confidence losers, aside from PUA Mystery types faking it that have veered way out of their lane and are understandably mocked by all.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069976)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 5:40 PM
Author: Ebony Internal Respiration

chicks dig OYT even as I deny my Essence to them. lol sluts.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50069943)



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Date: August 15th, 2026 9:24 PM
Author: Sexy Razzle-dazzle Trailer Park Mad Cow Disease

You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her at a party and tell her that her breath smells than if you become friends with her and after months of hanging out you write her a love letter.

I don't think its that chicks "love assholes" it is that they are very turned off by desperation.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50070186)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:04 PM
Author: Cracking vermilion candlestick maker dingle berry



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50071102)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:06 PM
Author: maize concupiscible hall

I definitely know assholes that have punched way above their weight and simp otherwise handsome bros that ended up with pigs.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50071109)



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Date: August 16th, 2026 12:07 PM
Author: Electric Dragon Brunch

they enjoy emotional and physical abuse.

they are gratified by rape fantasies, which constitute most of the plots in romance novels and 'womens lit'.

this is widely understood.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5893322&forum_id=2#50071111)