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lol, mba chick calendared a zoom meeting to dump me

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Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
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swashbuckling school cafeteria
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cerise goyim corner
  10/02/24
She did wait until almost EoD. True to form until the end.
lex
  10/02/24
sorry brother. can we get some deets tho
Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
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Heady brunch
  10/02/24
Get this: where I moved too fast was wanting to hang out and...
lex
  10/02/24
I have 1 friend in life who is married with children. he adv...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
Fuck you mig. Also thanks love you bro.
lex
  10/02/24
crrr
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
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Arousing shivering orchestra pit laser beams
  10/02/24
im so confused by this. she broke up with you because you wa...
silver talented stage
  10/02/24
(she just wasn't that into him)
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/02/24
thats what i thought until i read the "had already drop...
silver talented stage
  10/02/24
See below 'She was happier when we just went hiking or had d...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/02/24
this also evidences that he was not into her. women just end...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
No, I was into her to be clear. I think. I’m not devas...
lex
  10/02/24
You were not. Men are just very good at tricking themselves ...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
I don’t think you have a very good reading on my psych...
lex
  10/02/24
i dont think you have a good reading on your psychology
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
you realize how absurd it is to think you can know a person ...
ruddy parlor
  10/03/24
lex wouldnt do that
citrine gas station
  10/03/24
CR. Women are so highly attuned to the spiritual realm of lo...
Cracking keepsake machete
  10/02/24
that's right
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
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Cracking keepsake machete
  10/02/24
I want to go home
lex
  10/02/24
cr
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
I'm gay
Cracking keepsake machete
  10/02/24
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Fighting mind-boggling stag film
  10/02/24
180000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000...
Fighting mind-boggling stag film
  10/02/24
ive had this happen before. hint: women are 180
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/02/24
Probably. Ah well. I learned some lessons about patience and...
lex
  10/02/24
Think I leaned into the intellectual shtick too hard and sca...
lex
  10/02/24
she's not over her ex sucks but nothing u can do about it...
silver talented stage
  10/02/24
This might be right Ty man
lex
  10/02/24
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Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/02/24
Definitely possible that she's not fully over her ex. Co...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/02/24
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Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
birdbrains
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
she wants a travel buddy, lex wants an intellect
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
i used to be more aggressive and abrasive in general. now th...
lex
  10/02/24
raep them friend
Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
are you athletic at all
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
i go out on trails a lot and still lift some. i'm not small....
lex
  10/02/24
women love nature
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
per this thread, only because you might rape them in nature
lex
  10/02/24
they love danger its insane one chick was willing to go to a...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
cr my best friend took his now-wife on a hike in a forest pr...
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
I had this happen before
submissive really tough guy
  10/03/24
wait what? you were trying to cuddle and read read buddhist...
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
cq
Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
Yeah. It was a great but weird week and a half.
lex
  10/02/24
pls describe pussy and bewbs
Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
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Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
He needed to get aggressive way earlier. every other guy is ...
comical sinister ticket booth half-breed
  10/02/24
I still don’t think that’s the issue here. I got...
lex
  10/02/24
you should, relationships do not develop out of a shared int...
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
titcr. leave faggotry to your dealings with men
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
no need for faggotry, just help bros out judiciously
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
no faggotry is great
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
I’m not going to be successful pursuing relationships ...
lex
  10/02/24
that's exactly the point, you aren't faking it, you are just...
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
I don’t want to hang out and fuck women I don’t ...
lex
  10/02/24
you seem to severely misunderstand my point, that is the met...
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
I understand your argument just fine. I think you’re w...
lex
  10/02/24
it always was, you've been fed lies by people who write thin...
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
This is nsam-level retarded and wrong
lex
  10/02/24
no, it is self evidently the case
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
  10/02/24
cr if you spend any amount of time reading about daily l...
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
cr, pepys spends like half his diary talking about wanting t...
olive boyish halford meetinghouse
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Flesh Galvanic Regret
  10/06/24
Women embody whatever “age” they live in and you...
Bat shit crazy thriller address
  10/02/24
"i think it's ruinous to accelerate physical intimacy b...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
he is in denial about the nature of relationships with the o...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
blah blah blah, describe her coochie
Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
I have some decency in terms of how much I overshare here.
lex
  10/02/24
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
He got Laid tho
purple flirting garrison
  10/02/24
that might not be a small thing in terms of confidence, actu...
lex
  10/02/24
wanting to hang out and read Buddhist stuff with her in a co...
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
Welcome to modern dating, my friend.
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/02/24
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coiffed trip pit electric furnace
  10/02/24
it's been waiting for you
Fighting mind-boggling stag film
  10/02/24
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Fighting mind-boggling stag film
  10/02/24
this is your megachurch girl moment. harness it for its full...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
Lol at talking about your spirituality and feelings to a wom...
checked out chud
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swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/02/24
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Cracking keepsake machete
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checked out chud
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khaki appetizing area
  10/02/24
rapepill is real
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
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marvelous prole
  10/03/24
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territorial nibblets
  10/03/24
"Yeah so listen I've got a hard stop in 15 so let's jus...
rusted sanctuary
  10/02/24
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lex
  10/02/24
What was the exact wording? How did she tell you this
cobalt painfully honest turdskin
  10/02/24
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Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
via text: "Hi Lex. Hope that your Wednesday is going...
lex
  10/02/24
Wow, zero emotion, like a layoff email
cobalt painfully honest turdskin
  10/02/24
in case you all thought i was running schtick about the basi...
lex
  10/02/24
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buck-toothed indirect expression hairy legs
  10/03/24
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submissive really tough guy
  10/03/24
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avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
barf. consider yourself lucky
Flushed space elastic band
  10/02/24
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cobalt painfully honest turdskin
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Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
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territorial nibblets
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avocado cerebral water buffalo
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Bat-shit-crazy Coldplay Fan New Version
  10/03/24
i like the part where she makes it all about her
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
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cobalt painfully honest turdskin
  10/02/24
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
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avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
Holy fuck
insanely creepy striped hyena church building
  10/02/24
this is standard women thinking. ive gotten this text severa...
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
i even gave myself a chance to love her
lex
  10/02/24
jfc
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/02/24
Please reply “thanks”
Emerald Den Juggernaut
  10/02/24
thank
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/02/24
thankl
avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
either you dodged a huge bullet or this woman was not nearly...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/02/24
Both is likely tcr
avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
Ok this is either shtick or I’m retiring
checked out chud
  10/02/24
See you tomorrow
citrine gas station
  10/02/24
It is not schtick.
insanely creepy striped hyena church building
  10/02/24
if anything, i've been holding back because the full reality...
lex
  10/02/24
You did fuck her though? Was it good?
checked out chud
  10/03/24
lmao not mocking your misfortune brother but holy shit
Turquoise drunken home
  10/03/24
haha, no worries.
fear-inspiring institution
  10/03/24
This is honestly pretty nice. She could have just ghosted or...
gold vibrant dragon business firm
  10/03/24
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beady-eyed principal's office
  10/03/24
content is extremely civil and respectful. style is gross
Flushed space elastic band
  10/03/24
the fact it's so "civil" in a cold, bizshrewry way...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
cr
cobalt painfully honest turdskin
  10/03/24
i got something similar although less shrewy from the NESCAC...
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
guide yourself accordingly
Irradiated flickering travel guidebook therapy
  10/03/24
"I also feel I'm uninterested to pursue" nice g...
Mewling cruel-hearted office
  10/03/24
the whole text is awkward diction and syntax
Flushed space elastic band
  10/03/24
"ok"
marvelous prole
  10/03/24
Apple picking faggot bump
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/17/26
I want to acknowledge the presence of Greg who will be obser...
Glittery hall internal respiration
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citrine gas station
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faglord
  10/03/24
should have known you were getting term’d when your ac...
Opaque Floppy Mood
  10/02/24
lex, actual relationship advice (notwithstanding that this w...
hateful death wish heaven
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insanely creepy striped hyena church building
  10/02/24
"you are taking the delusion at face value and particip...
lex
  10/02/24
when you find the right romantic relationship, you will see ...
hateful death wish heaven
  10/03/24
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lex
  10/04/24
If you think this is a loss of innocence, you have no idea o...
Lime nowag
  10/03/24
Cr
checked out chud
  10/03/24
sex has to be the foundation. coexisting harmoniously/synerg...
Flushed space elastic band
  10/03/24
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checked out chud
  10/03/24
I’m gay
Hot stimulating lay
  10/03/24
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
dating an mba shrew over 30 from hinge is gayer than doing p...
Ivory razzle-dazzle corn cake
  10/03/24
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swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
tp
Fighting mind-boggling stag film
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citrine gas station
  10/03/24
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Hot stimulating lay
  10/03/24
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faglord
  10/03/24
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anal hunting ground temple
  10/03/24
while i'm being self-indulgent (i'm on a streak, i'll just o...
lex
  10/03/24
Your overthinking it
big-titted startling pistol field
  10/03/24
can't help it
lex
  10/03/24
lol painting class. people should learn something befor...
Ivory razzle-dazzle corn cake
  10/03/24
she couldn't even frame a landscape shot well with her iphon...
lex
  10/03/24
...
beady-eyed principal's office
  10/03/24
wow, someone just like you that is reevaluating her spiritua...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
pretty much yeah. thought i lucked out.
lex
  10/03/24
you have to remember that most women are empty vessels that ...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
...
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
Dude.
insanely creepy striped hyena church building
  10/03/24
?
lex
  10/03/24
I will be autistic about this for your benefit: Rationali...
insanely creepy striped hyena church building
  10/03/24
i call this "masculine brain" and "feminine b...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
jfc bro This is never going to happen. You are not going ...
Mewling cruel-hearted office
  10/03/24
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histrionic marketing idea
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Flushed space elastic band
  10/03/24
"wow, this bizshrew has a deep, oceanic soul! she is re...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
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cobalt painfully honest turdskin
  10/03/24
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swashbuckling school cafeteria
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insanely creepy striped hyena church building
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big-titted startling pistol field
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Turquoise drunken home
  10/03/24
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Carmine laughsome station immigrant
  10/03/24
amazing typo with "physically intimidate"
MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
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marvelous prole
  10/03/24
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avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
What you really need is some male friends who you can share ...
checked out chud
  10/03/24
women are complimentary to men in far more ways than sex but...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
i'm coming around to this (a decade and a half too late). it...
lex
  10/06/24
You're a broke nigga that's why she dumped you
faglord
  10/03/24
lex is doing fine and presumably she knew about his finances...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
LOL yeah he's doing fine he's a crippled grad student who ha...
faglord
  10/03/24
yeah. he's doing fine and is 180 af.
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
"lex" if you listen to "gonneratt" your ...
faglord
  10/03/24
the best case scenario to listening to anyone's advice is wi...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
You do realize his poverty (1) was likely one reason out of ...
insanely creepy striped hyena church building
  10/03/24
i made it unambiguously clear that i am not interested in th...
lex
  10/03/24
OP Sam Hyde has a very important life advice vid about this,...
faglord
  10/03/24
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insanely creepy striped hyena church building
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MAGA's Prolapsed Anus
  10/03/24
I knew it would be the man with Asperger's clip
Lime nowag
  10/03/24
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Sadistic crackhouse pozpig
  10/03/24
Btw you can probably still keep things going with her if you...
checked out chud
  10/03/24
This is not even that bad for a breakup. How else is a girl ...
gold vibrant dragon business firm
  10/03/24
What do you mean he's not actually nice
cobalt painfully honest turdskin
  10/03/24
Most guys going around complaining on the internet about how...
gold vibrant dragon business firm
  10/03/24
is this a femcel or an absolute faggot?
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
I guarantee you this is a femcel.
avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
This is sadly true. A lot of self-proclaimed "nice&...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
Can a late 30s guy with no jerb be "nice"
faglord
  10/03/24
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Heady brunch
  10/03/24
she's right that the "nice guy" architype is true ...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
I was making a general comment in response to the other poas...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
there is no way you can get me to stop getting gakked and de...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
Well, I am not anti-lex. I hope everyone finds a person to l...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
i know you're in his corner and we WILL forcibly masculinize...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
I don't think he will listen to me, but maybe he will listen...
swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
he wont. men don't listen to women's dating advice for the s...
citrine gas station
  10/03/24
jcm is ascended as evidenced by her advice and comments itt....
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
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swashbuckling school cafeteria
  10/03/24
i'm listening to JCM seriously. i don't think she's wrong at...
lex
  10/03/24
experience. it's no different than how learning how to be at...
Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability
  10/03/24
Not really. I think the reality is that women aren't always...
avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
Define "that bad." If she called and said "s...
avocado cerebral water buffalo
  10/03/24
Just be yourself
Lime nowag
  10/03/24
tp
Fighting mind-boggling stag film
  10/03/24
She just wants to find synergy and maximize that bottom line...
Concupiscible philosopher-king
  10/03/24
lex, any updates?
Flushed space elastic band
  12/05/24
better things are shaping up, but i'll always treasure that ...
lex
  12/05/24
<3
Flushed space elastic band
  12/05/24
love u bro
lex
  12/05/24
...
Indigo casino wrinkle
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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:30 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156650)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:30 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156653)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:30 PM
Author: cerise goyim corner



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156657)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:31 PM
Author: lex

She did wait until almost EoD. True to form until the end.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156662)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:32 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

sorry brother. can we get some deets tho

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156666)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:32 PM
Author: Heady brunch



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156667)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:39 PM
Author: lex

Get this: where I moved too fast was wanting to hang out and read Buddhist stuff with her in a comfy and cuddly manner. She had already been dropping hints about shrewdly fine dining and travel shit she might want to do together, but the heart sutra did me in.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156692)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:40 PM
Author: citrine gas station

I have 1 friend in life who is married with children. he advised me that it is never cr to discuss religion with women, especially not if you want to learn about hers. you projected your soul onto her and wanted her to enlighten you. this is the most powerful form of spiritual development, but women want a man that is already Developed. luv mig

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156697)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:42 PM
Author: lex

Fuck you mig. Also thanks love you bro.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156701)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:43 PM
Author: citrine gas station

crrr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156702)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:20 PM
Author: Arousing shivering orchestra pit laser beams



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156813)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:43 PM
Author: silver talented stage

im so confused by this. she broke up with you because you wanted to hang out?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156704)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:45 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

(she just wasn't that into him)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156706)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:48 PM
Author: silver talented stage

thats what i thought until i read the "had already dropped hints about doing travel stuff together" part and why im confused

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156712)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:52 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

See below 'She was happier when we just went hiking or had dinner, drinks (her), etc. Something about hanging out and doing me stuff made her thinking about a future with me seem distasteful'

Ie, she's just not that into him.

Not a big deal, at least he's back in the game pursuing biological women. Find someone dorkier that's a better fit. (Fizzkidd, we're all looking at you)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156735)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:53 PM
Author: citrine gas station

this also evidences that he was not into her. women just end it early because men will sex whatever

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156739)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:54 PM
Author: lex

No, I was into her to be clear. I think. I’m not devastated, just bummed, nevertheless.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156741)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:56 PM
Author: citrine gas station

You were not. Men are just very good at tricking themselves into thinking they are because it leads to sex. Look at it plainly. There is no way you are legitimately interested in an MBA business shrew. You deny sexual motives, but they control you nonetheless.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156744)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:06 PM
Author: lex

I don’t think you have a very good reading on my psychology here, brother

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156766)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:18 PM
Author: citrine gas station

i dont think you have a good reading on your psychology

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156803)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: ruddy parlor

you realize how absurd it is to think you can know a person via text, right? dude's probably lying about everything including MBA chick

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158539)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:18 PM
Author: citrine gas station

lex wouldnt do that

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158852)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:22 PM
Author: Cracking keepsake machete

CR. Women are so highly attuned to the spiritual realm of long-term monogamy formation that they simply can't abide superficial engagements like men blinded by sex

*becomes one of genghis khan's 300k concubines*

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156827)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:23 PM
Author: citrine gas station

that's right

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156831)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:27 PM
Author: Cracking keepsake machete



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156852)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:28 PM
Author: lex

I want to go home

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156859)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:29 PM
Author: citrine gas station

cr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156863)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM
Author: Cracking keepsake machete

I'm gay

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156869)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM
Author: Fighting mind-boggling stag film



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156874)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:32 PM
Author: Fighting mind-boggling stag film

180000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156879)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:16 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

ive had this happen before.

hint: women are 180

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156789)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:50 PM
Author: lex

Probably. Ah well. I learned some lessons about patience and enjoyed the ride, at least.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156726)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:48 PM
Author: lex

Think I leaned into the intellectual shtick too hard and scared her off (revealing that this is something I find interesting and nice in a relationship). She was happier when we just went hiking or had dinner, drinks (her), etc. Something about hanging out and doing me stuff made her thinking about a future with me seem distasteful. Note: over sharing and sex did not. This is a very idiosyncratic outcome, I think.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156715)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM
Author: silver talented stage

she's not over her ex

sucks but nothing u can do about it. at least u got some post-rehab experience points

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156720)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:08 PM
Author: lex

This might be right

Ty man

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156770)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:17 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156795)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:27 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

Definitely possible that she's not fully over her ex.

Could also be a situation where she felt relieved by lex opening up on the first date- it made her feel like he was her peer, and made her feel less dysfunctional to be post-divorce and thinking about fleeing the area, etc. She enjoyed doing activities with him that SHE likes (ie, drinks, chatting, looking to the future and planning shrew trips with the honeymoon period rush of excitement about dating) and got caught up in those and enjoying feeling physical affection from someone new. Then reality caught up to her as she learned more activities that he enjoys and the rush of meeting someone new started to fade slightly, she realized that she just wasn't that into him specifically.

Shit like this happens all the time.



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156855)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:07 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157397)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:22 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158288)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:50 PM
Author: citrine gas station

birdbrains

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156724)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM
Author: citrine gas station

she wants a travel buddy, lex wants an intellect

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156722)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:36 PM
Author: lex

i used to be more aggressive and abrasive in general. now the only realm where i still am is narrowly intellectual and academic worlds, which are also the only places i'm actually competent. maybe aesthetic/artsy, if that's a separate realm. i'm so fucked trying to date app chicks and act normal.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157517)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:40 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

raep them friend

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157528)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:51 PM
Author: citrine gas station

are you athletic at all

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157561)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:53 PM
Author: lex

i go out on trails a lot and still lift some. i'm not small. haven't played any sports since high school, though.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157571)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:54 PM
Author: citrine gas station

women love nature

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157574)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:57 PM
Author: lex

per this thread, only because you might rape them in nature

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157588)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:57 PM
Author: citrine gas station

they love danger its insane one chick was willing to go to a forest preserve with me after like 1 date i could easily have killed her

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157591)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:28 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)

cr my best friend took his now-wife on a hike in a forest preserve on second date as well

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158319)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:27 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158313)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:54 AM
Author: submissive really tough guy

I had this happen before

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158045)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:45 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

wait what? you were trying to cuddle and read read buddhist shit? did you even fuck this bitch?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156707)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:48 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

cq

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156717)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM
Author: lex

Yeah. It was a great but weird week and a half.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156719)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:51 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

pls describe pussy and bewbs

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156731)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:08 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156771)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:49 PM
Author: comical sinister ticket booth half-breed

He needed to get aggressive way earlier. every other guy is trying to rape her. So if he's not, does he even like her?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156721)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:52 PM
Author: lex

I still don’t think that’s the issue here. I got more aggressive as time went on and it did not seem to be a problem. Fuck do i know, though. Not rushing into sex was my preference and I don’t regret acting on it.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156736)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:57 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

you should, relationships do not develop out of a shared interest in faggotry, you bone and decide that was fun then ride that for a couple weeks and if things click that's cool

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156745)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:59 PM
Author: citrine gas station

titcr. leave faggotry to your dealings with men

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156750)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:01 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

no need for faggotry, just help bros out judiciously

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156754)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:01 PM
Author: citrine gas station

no faggotry is great

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156755)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:07 PM
Author: lex

I’m not going to be successful pursuing relationships that way. Can’t fake it forever.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156768)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:10 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

that's exactly the point, you aren't faking it, you are just fucking and hanging out and seeing if you get along, the defining feature of the relationship is the fucking, that just is the case

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156773)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:11 PM
Author: lex

I don’t want to hang out and fuck women I don’t care about. That WOULD be faking it.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156775)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:13 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

you seem to severely misunderstand my point, that is the method by which one comes to know a woman, not asking faggy questions, honesty only happens with intimacy, this is an immutable fact about human nature

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156778)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:16 PM
Author: lex

I understand your argument just fine. I think you’re wrong. I complain about contemporary degeneracy constantly on here. It should be clear I don’t think your position would be at all tenable in a sane age.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156790)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:19 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

it always was, you've been fed lies by people who write things down, there never was a moral society

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156804)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:22 PM
Author: lex

This is nsam-level retarded and wrong

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156822)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:23 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

no, it is self evidently the case

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156835)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:31 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)

cr

if you spend any amount of time reading about daily life in basically any society or culture anywhere at any point in time they were always obsessed with sex and ribaldry and wanting to fuck and suck



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158335)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 4:53 PM
Author: olive boyish halford meetinghouse

cr, pepys spends like half his diary talking about wanting to fuck and suck all the saucy little sluts about london town

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160306)



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Date: October 6th, 2024 7:09 PM
Author: Flesh Galvanic Regret



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48170289)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 8:16 PM
Author: Bat shit crazy thriller address

Women embody whatever “age” they live in and you can’t get around that with an MBA shrew of all types ffs

The time you long for she’d also be a virgin. That ship sailed lol.

You need to fuck asap. Women pair bond with whomever has sex with them. It’s a biological fact you idiot liberal artist.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157003)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 5:45 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

"i think it's ruinous to accelerate physical intimacy before it's appropriate"

(guy accelerating emotional intimacy before it's appropriate)

you're a healthy red blooded man and fucked this broad. you don't have to engage in modern degeneracy but it has always been true the physical and emotional intimacy are correlated. that doesn't mean you have to play by modern standards of fucking and sucking, but you also shouldn't be trauma dumping before you've even held hands.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160515)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:19 PM
Author: citrine gas station

he is in denial about the nature of relationships with the opposite sex

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156807)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:15 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

blah blah blah, describe her coochie

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156784)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:17 PM
Author: lex

I have some decency in terms of how much I overshare here.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156793)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:27 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158309)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:38 PM
Author: purple flirting garrison

He got Laid tho

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157521)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:50 PM
Author: lex

that might not be a small thing in terms of confidence, actually

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157556)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:21 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)

wanting to hang out and read Buddhist stuff with her in a comfy and cuddly manner tp

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158285)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:18 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

Welcome to modern dating, my friend.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156802)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 9:11 PM
Author: coiffed trip pit electric furnace



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157155)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:29 PM
Author: Fighting mind-boggling stag film

it's been waiting for you

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157475)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 6:47 PM
Author: Fighting mind-boggling stag film



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156711)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:24 PM
Author: citrine gas station

this is your megachurch girl moment. harness it for its full potential

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156838)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM
Author: checked out chud

Lol at talking about your spirituality and feelings to a woman instead of raping her

Don’t act like you’re surprised by this. You know what you did wrong

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156872)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:31 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156875)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:32 PM
Author: Cracking keepsake machete



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156877)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:33 PM
Author: checked out chud



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156883)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:34 PM
Author: khaki appetizing area



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157505)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:06 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)

rapepill is real

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158507)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:29 PM
Author: marvelous prole



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159252)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:59 PM
Author: territorial nibblets



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159477)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 7:33 PM
Author: rusted sanctuary

"Yeah so listen I've got a hard stop in 15 so let's just sharpen our pencils and get down to it."

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48156885)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:30 PM
Author: lex



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157483)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:38 PM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin

What was the exact wording? How did she tell you this

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157519)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:40 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157529)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:43 PM
Author: lex

via text:

"Hi Lex. Hope that your Wednesday is going well.

In being genuine to myself & transparent with you, I've thought about the dates we had, and while I have enjoyed getting to know you, I also feel I'm uninterested to pursue this connection further.

I appreciate the generosity of your time & genuinely wish you well. I hope that we both find what we're looking for out there."

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157537)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:44 PM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin

Wow, zero emotion, like a layoff email

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157541)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:46 PM
Author: lex

in case you all thought i was running schtick about the basic conceit of MBA texter girl, it was 100% not flame.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157549)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 6:36 AM
Author: buck-toothed indirect expression hairy legs



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157917)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:56 AM
Author: submissive really tough guy



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158048)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:48 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159741)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:45 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

barf. consider yourself lucky

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157542)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:45 PM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157543)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:12 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157622)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:24 AM
Author: territorial nibblets



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157814)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:49 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159746)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 4:39 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Coldplay Fan New Version



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160247)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:51 PM
Author: citrine gas station

i like the part where she makes it all about her

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157563)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 10:54 PM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157575)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:03 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158496)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:49 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159747)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:08 PM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building

Holy fuck

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157614)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:10 PM
Author: citrine gas station

this is standard women thinking. ive gotten this text several times. i get more embarrassed for them than me

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157618)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:31 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158337)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:15 PM
Author: lex

i even gave myself a chance to love her

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157631)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:09 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

jfc

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157615)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:10 PM
Author: Emerald Den Juggernaut

Please reply “thanks”

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157617)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:12 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

thank

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157623)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:49 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo

thankl

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159749)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:21 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

either you dodged a huge bullet or this woman was not nearly as into you as you thought she was... or both. 😬

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157640)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:49 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo

Both is likely tcr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159750)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:47 PM
Author: checked out chud

Ok this is either shtick or I’m retiring

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157694)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:47 PM
Author: citrine gas station

See you tomorrow

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157695)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:48 PM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building

It is not schtick.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157696)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:50 PM
Author: lex

if anything, i've been holding back because the full reality would seem like flaem

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157703)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:22 AM
Author: checked out chud

You did fuck her though? Was it good?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157743)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 7:39 AM
Author: Turquoise drunken home

lmao

not mocking your misfortune brother but holy shit

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157946)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 7:47 AM
Author: fear-inspiring institution

haha, no worries.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157950)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:31 AM
Author: gold vibrant dragon business firm

This is honestly pretty nice. She could have just ghosted or strung you along while seeing other guys. There's not really a nicer way to break up with a guy you don't have a connection with.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158638)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:43 AM
Author: beady-eyed principal's office



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:54 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

content is extremely civil and respectful. style is gross

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159032)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:58 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

the fact it's so "civil" in a cold, bizshrewry way after they opened up emotionally and engaged in sacred physical intimacy is why it's so gross.

yeah, it's "nice." the fact people are so passionless and "nice" when rejecting someone after sharing these things is what's so funking demonic.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159050)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:16 PM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin

cr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159564)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:23 PM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)

i got something similar although less shrewy from the NESCAC chick but that'd been only after two dates and just some light kissing, nothing serious at all.

this does seem very autistic to someone you've had sex with imo

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159199)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:52 PM
Author: Irradiated flickering travel guidebook therapy

guide yourself accordingly

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159025)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 4:27 PM
Author: Mewling cruel-hearted office

"I also feel I'm uninterested to pursue"

nice grammar, especially for someone who holds herself out as a big-shot MBA

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160194)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 5:33 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

the whole text is awkward diction and syntax

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160489)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 5:32 PM
Author: marvelous prole

"ok"

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160482)



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Date: October 17th, 2026 2:20 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

Apple picking faggot bump

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#50193939)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:11 PM
Author: Glittery hall internal respiration

I want to acknowledge the presence of Greg who will be observing this call today.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157619)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:11 PM
Author: citrine gas station



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:37 AM
Author: faglord



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158138)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:16 PM
Author: Opaque Floppy Mood

should have known you were getting term’d when your access to her panties was cut off

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157632)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:22 PM
Author: hateful death wish heaven

lex, actual relationship advice (notwithstanding that this woman sounds forgettable): do not schedule intellectual activities like “reading buddhist texts,” especially early. women, even intellectual ones, do not want tasks or challenges or homework. they want to be hugged and patted on the ass and for someone to be there with them when they’re sad, and fucked. their desire for intellect, when it exists, is more or less aesthetic preference, so that she can justify surrendering herself to you, and so that your conversations can settle on a compatible level of depth. she may tell herself she wants a “headier” relationship but this is just the unconscious delusion that makes the surrender possible, and a romantic relationship founded on “headiness” isn’t sustainable anyways. you are taking the delusion at face value and participating in it, as is perhaps your nature as someone used to forging friendships through intellectual activity as it is. you have to look past the delusion, and resist your own nerdy tendencies.

the foundation of opposite sex relationships besides fucking is in the mundane. it is about taking pleasure in daily nothings such that mere presence and mere existence become a little more ascendant, it is not about forming ascendant intellectual bonds through which to raise mere existence up to their own level (that is for same sex relationships – peers embarking on a great productive mission, soldiers heading off to fight great wars).

do not reach for the ascendant first. do not manufacture connection out of intellectual effort or “shared ideas.” nor do you necessarily have to go on trips or whatever. just be affectionate and cheerful and sexy and casually smart and some kind of intellectual connection will emerge through experience, or as much of one as can exist and is actually desirable in a romantic relationship.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157642)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:29 PM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157654)



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Date: October 2nd, 2024 11:52 PM
Author: lex

"you are taking the delusion at face value and participating in it, as is perhaps your nature as someone used to forging friendships through intellectual activity as it is. you have to look past the delusion, and resist your own nerdy tendencies."

harsh but fair. in retrospect, yeah. i wanted to extend the principle of charity, but i was either wrong from the start here or at least took it too far, taking her completely at face when she described what sorts of things she said she wanted in a relationship.

if you're right more generally, that is depressing. this is innocence's end for me, in a sense. i hope you're not.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157706)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:41 AM
Author: hateful death wish heaven

when you find the right romantic relationship, you will see that this is not necessarily depressing. it will be one that seems boring from the outside and different from what you might have envisioned but it will feel right precisely for that reason, because your pleasure will reside merely in being within it, not forging things out of it. it will be the background to your life's efforts, not their object, and that is right.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157760)



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Date: October 4th, 2024 11:19 AM
Author: lex



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48162525)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:34 AM
Author: Lime nowag

If you think this is a loss of innocence, you have no idea of what kind of innocence you can lose with women

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157824)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:23 AM
Author: checked out chud

Cr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157744)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:31 AM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

sex has to be the foundation. coexisting harmoniously/synergistically is the next level up, and the realistic ceiling. transcendent and mutually enlightening intellectual/spiritual/etc bonding can happen, but it's incredibly rare, and impractical to actively seek. sorry lex

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157752)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:11 AM
Author: checked out chud



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157793)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 7:36 AM
Author: Hot stimulating lay

I’m gay

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157945)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:51 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158421)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:37 AM
Author: Ivory razzle-dazzle corn cake

dating an mba shrew over 30 from hinge is gayer than doing poppers and getting sodomized by dozens of faggots with full blown aids

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157758)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:03 AM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157783)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:52 AM
Author: Fighting mind-boggling stag film

tp

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157831)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:28 AM
Author: citrine gas station



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 7:44 AM
Author: Hot stimulating lay



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157948)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:38 AM
Author: faglord



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158140)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:46 AM
Author: anal hunting ground temple



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:18 AM
Author: lex

while i'm being self-indulgent (i'm on a streak, i'll just own it), i think what i liked about her was her image of herself. she presented herself as someone spiritually dead trying to make a more meaningful life after career advancement started to plateau and increasing the dragon's horde wasn't satisfying. i didn't pick a buddhist text randomly. i have my own philosophical views and they are far from undeveloped, but she made a point of choosing that as a religion and complained that she never actually got around to reading the heart sutra, and communicating that this was who she wanted to be in her imagining of her new life. i liked that. i actually really liked that. she wanted to have a creative life as well, but didn't really know how to approach it besides taking (what i'm guessing were overpriced) painting classes.

so i wrote a story in my head about broken people complementing each other's brokenness in an interesting way. in the end, i liked my story. i took the idea of dating as seeking a connection at face. i'm an idiot, then. yet i still don't want to kill whatever bit of whimsy or sincerity led me here, even if just in this weeklong fling.

so then what do i want? what's realistic to expect? i certainly don't want to daddy around some young girl for the rest of my 30's, and i'm not jaded enough to take the rapepill. just... chill and let something work out once i can meet someone who is actually more compatible with my disposition -- more mundanely, someone that's more bohemian or nerdy (whatever that means for a 30-something) and less shrewy, and accept that any depth to those similarities in personality is just that, superficial at first and perhaps even long-term? fuck. this was all easier when i was young and drunk.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157804)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:21 AM
Author: big-titted startling pistol field

Your overthinking it

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157809)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:23 AM
Author: lex

can't help it

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157812)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:29 AM
Author: Ivory razzle-dazzle corn cake

lol painting class.

people should learn something before they try to be "creative."

typical wine shrew bs.

painting? can she even DRAW? (she can't)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157817)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:31 AM
Author: lex

she couldn't even frame a landscape shot well with her iphone on a hike. painting was not her strong suit, to put it lightly. but i'm a shitty poet and trying to get better, and i took her at her word that she wanted to develop something.

but yeah in retrospect, lol at painting class as a first impulse.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157820)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:48 AM
Author: beady-eyed principal's office



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48157830)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:51 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

wow, someone just like you that is reevaluating her spirituality after a major life event and coming to terms with a career being ultimately unfulfilling? crazy you met someone like this right off the bat and weren't just projecting this image onto her which she may have mirrored for the first week or so until she lost interest and coldly rebuffed you via text haha.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158034)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:56 AM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158049)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:00 AM
Author: lex

pretty much yeah. thought i lucked out.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158060)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:11 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

you have to remember that most women are empty vessels that will conform to whatever is around them that they are attracted to. this is why most women don't have hobbies beyond consumption but will adopt all of her boyfriends hobbies. it's the same way with opinions and everything else. this is why she is *sincerely* a bizshrew. because women have the capacity to sincerely get into things that they perceive as important and valuable while men realize it's only a means to an end. this is why women will get upset over inconsequential bullshit. to them it's important.

however, you have to realize that these extremely real and sincere feelings are based only on emotions. women do not have principles in the way men do. this is why they can love you one day and live, laugh, love the next.

you shouldn't feel stupid that you bought the idea of this person and your story. because it probably was real at the time. read and re-read jcm's longer post itt. you can trust a woman to be seriously deeply interested in you so long as they are emotionally connected. early in the relationship, especially when women are older, this is very fleeting. get used to be confused how a woman can be "really super into you" and then not the next day. this is how they are wired. this is why we are supposed to pair bond and commit to an unbreakable legal and spiritual union in our youth. do you think all the severe consequences of dishonoring a marriage would have existed if that type of social, legal and spiritual pressure was unnecessary? now go look at which gender typically presses a no-fault divorce and which gender will try to keep it together because they made a vow.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158069)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:55 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158443)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:59 AM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building

Dude.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158058)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:00 AM
Author: lex

?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158061)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:23 AM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building

I will be autistic about this for your benefit:

Rationalists, who I don't agree with in general but who have stumbled upon something here, say that there are two basic kind of thinkers: wordcels and shape rotators.

You are a wordcel to the core. This mindset ensures that your thoughts and feelings mirror LLM output: it is trapped entirely in the world of words, in a way that bears only a superficial relationship to the world of shapes.

This does not do well with women, because they are overwhelmingly in the 'wordcel' category themselves. But their words are built on a bed of shapes, and as the story is pulled over it, the jagged edges of those shapes first stretch and then rip those words to shreds. Women call this 'getting the ick'.

Here, your MBA woman wrote a story while she was enchanted with Height, Handsome and Brain, and then was promptly disenchanted with you on account of your sexual performance, financial situation or your 'let's ponder Oriental religious texts together' idea.

Here, you continue to ponder words like 'bohemian', 'nerdy', etc. Do not ponder an imaginary woman. Instead, when you meet another person, ponder their shape (not just physical), and evaluate in this order (kind of a 'napkin map', no doubt there is more):

(1) Can you trust her?

(2) Do you want to fuck her, and does she want to fuck you?

(3) What does she want?

Hope this helps.

There are also a couple of ick factors about you that I would not post publicly; I will go into these with you when we next meet.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158096)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:26 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

i call this "masculine brain" and "feminine brain."

lex definitely has a feminine brain. this isn't implying he is "feminine" at all, only that he has a more feminine way of thinking, which isn't necessarily bad. what he needs is a woman who is feminine but has a "masculine brain."

these type of women often tend to be extremely online, asian, autistic, into masculine hobbies, etc. hmmmm...

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158101)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 4:36 PM
Author: Mewling cruel-hearted office

jfc bro

This is never going to happen. You are not going to meet some "bohemian" or "nerdy" chick who is single in her 30s unless she has severe issues that would make her completely undateable for a LTR. Your ONLY chance of having a viable relationship with someone like that is chadding out and completely killing off your feminine side so that you can attract a younger girl who meets your criteria to dad around.

Right now you are caught between targeting a non-existent demographic, and another demographic that might satisfy you but won't buy what you are currently selling.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48160241)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:30 AM
Author: histrionic marketing idea



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:36 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:39 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

"wow, this bizshrew has a deep, oceanic soul! she is really thoughtful, caring, intelligent, and seriously spiritual. i've opened up to her about all my vulnerabilities and insecurities, and now that we've been physically intimidate i can tell that something really solid has formed."

"Hi Lex. Hope that your Wednesday is going well..."

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158009)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:47 AM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:57 AM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 8:58 AM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158055)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:10 AM
Author: big-titted startling pistol field



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:28 AM
Author: Turquoise drunken home



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:02 AM
Author: Carmine laughsome station immigrant



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:05 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)

amazing typo with "physically intimidate"

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158502)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:29 PM
Author: marvelous prole



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:49 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:32 AM
Author: checked out chud

What you really need is some male friends who you can share this stuff with. I can't help you there, it's tough, I think we all wish we had more close male friends who we felt comfortable enough around to share our thoughts on stuff like spirituality with

You're never going to be able to share that part of you with women. That's actually just a hard rule and not even a generalization. That's just the way the world works. Women aren't like that. Women are for sex, and...I'm actually not sure what else, but other guys seem to keep them around for stuff other than sex, so maybe someone else can chime in on this

The good news is you live a university life so it should actually be somewhat easier for you to make male friends who are smart and sophisticated enough for you to actually be able to discuss stuff like spirituality and meaning with them. If not, we're always here for you on the internet to engage in subthread wastelands with you about it

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158122)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:39 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

women are complimentary to men in far more ways than sex but titcr on recognizing what you need dude friends for and what you need women for and not trying to combine them.

unless you start having sex with men. that's really the only way to "win" and have it all.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158145)



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Date: October 6th, 2024 8:21 PM
Author: lex

i'm coming around to this (a decade and a half too late). it's not as horrifying as i thought at first, now that the recent shock wore off.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48170540)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:33 AM
Author: faglord

You're a broke nigga that's why she dumped you

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158125)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:39 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

lex is doing fine and presumably she knew about his finances from date one when he opened up to her about everything.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158146)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:44 AM
Author: faglord

LOL yeah he's doing fine he's a crippled grad student who has no money of his own and spends all day jerking it while mom and dad pick up the bill

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158161)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:46 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

yeah. he's doing fine and is 180 af.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158169)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:50 AM
Author: faglord

"lex" if you listen to "gonneratt" your best case scenario is ending up like him

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158185)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:59 AM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

the best case scenario to listening to anyone's advice is winding up just like them as they are a product of following their own advice you dumb fuck

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158221)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:00 AM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building

You do realize his poverty (1) was likely one reason out of many, (2) militates in favor of a no strings attached fling?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158224)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:47 AM
Author: lex

i made it unambiguously clear that i am not interested in the latter. this may have been part of the problem.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158395)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 9:44 AM
Author: faglord

OP Sam Hyde has a very important life advice vid about this, u need to watch it - https://youtu.be/P6mdWmP-v58?t=705

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158158)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:25 AM
Author: insanely creepy striped hyena church building



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158302)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:54 AM
Author: MAGA's Prolapsed Anus (No Future)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158436)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:32 AM
Author: Lime nowag

I knew it would be the man with Asperger's clip

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158643)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:22 PM
Author: Sadistic crackhouse pozpig



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159190)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 10:51 AM
Author: checked out chud

Btw you can probably still keep things going with her if you really want to, as long as the sex was good

The only thing that matters is the sex. If you gave her the best sex of her life she would listen to you babble about Buddhist shit all day

You don’t have to tell us the details. Hopefully you know how to tell if a woman is really enjoying sex

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158418)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:29 AM
Author: gold vibrant dragon business firm

This is not even that bad for a breakup. How else is a girl supposed to get break up with a guy she doesn't like? Or is she just supposed to marry some guy because he's "nice" (he's actually not) and likes her?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158630)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:36 AM
Author: cobalt painfully honest turdskin

What do you mean he's not actually nice

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158662)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:45 AM
Author: gold vibrant dragon business firm

Most guys going around complaining on the internet about how women don't like nice guys aren't actually nice. In the rare instance they are actually "nice" then it's often just a nice way of describing their blank boring personalities but not someone who is likely to be a loving, productive, and contributing partner. Most guys are just staring at screens playing video games all day or drinking. They have completely shit personalities and think they're nice because they aren't raging and hitting people. That's just the bare minimum.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158703)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:07 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

is this a femcel or an absolute faggot?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158787)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:52 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo

I guarantee you this is a femcel.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159777)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:10 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

This is sadly true.

A lot of self-proclaimed "nice" guys are just using that as a descriptor because they aren't outwardly abusive. I've seen it more times than I can count.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158808)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:12 PM
Author: faglord

Can a late 30s guy with no jerb be "nice"

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158813)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:12 PM
Author: Heady brunch



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158817)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:13 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

she's right that the "nice guy" architype is true but i think we both know that lex is a genuine nice guy. it's very femcely to say that all nice guys are putting on this act. not once has lex made any remarks that bizshrew was wrong to dump him or lamented he got dumped because he's a "nice guy."

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158824)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:17 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

I was making a general comment in response to the other poaster's general comment. I wasn't talking about lex at all.

Lay off the adderall, friend :)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158844)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:23 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

there is no way you can get me to stop getting gakked and defending my homosexual friend lex.

her OP was targeted directly towards lex specifically and has been edited. i no longer have a problem with it and your agreement with it.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158877)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:25 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

Well, I am not anti-lex. I hope everyone finds a person to love and be loved by. It makes this hellish life easier to bear.

Carry on with your faggotry, faggot. :)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158898)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:27 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

i know you're in his corner and we WILL forcibly masculinize this absolute faggot

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158911)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:28 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria

I don't think he will listen to me, but maybe he will listen to you.

I'm headed to a goddamn funeral this afternoon, so I'll catch you faggots later.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158916)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:28 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158921)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:33 PM
Author: citrine gas station

he wont. men don't listen to women's dating advice for the same reason they don't listen to them when they're dating. they have no idea what they're saying

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158939)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:36 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

jcm is ascended as evidenced by her advice and comments itt. some heroic women accept the nature of men and women. its not like men don't have their own foibles.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158953)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 1:37 PM
Author: swashbuckling school cafeteria



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159328)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:36 PM
Author: lex

i'm listening to JCM seriously. i don't think she's wrong at all on the high-level issues, although it's difficult to admit where i'm wrong here. how to act on said advice is much more daunting. *that* i have no idea how to approach.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158954)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:40 PM
Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt)

experience. it's no different than how learning how to be at a bar and not drink took actually doing it a few times.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158966)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:55 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo

Not really. I think the reality is that women aren't always honest here. In reality, he should have been more assertive and not pushed stupid crap like Buddhist spirituality which will turn off most females. But few females will admit this. I recall reading that the correct analogy is that you don't take fishing advice from fish, you take it from successful fishermen.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159794)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:51 PM
Author: avocado cerebral water buffalo

Define "that bad." If she called and said "sorry, it isn't working out" no one would have snickered. Sending essentially a layoff notice as a breakup letter is going to result in people saying he dodged a bullet.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159772)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 11:29 AM
Author: Lime nowag

Just be yourself

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158633)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 2:50 PM
Author: Fighting mind-boggling stag film

tp

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48159754)



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Date: October 3rd, 2024 12:24 PM
Author: Concupiscible philosopher-king

She just wants to find synergy and maximize that bottom line, lay your points out in a PowerPoint and you will be good

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48158896)



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Date: December 5th, 2024 4:33 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

lex, any updates?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48416256)



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Date: December 5th, 2024 4:35 PM
Author: lex

better things are shaping up, but i'll always treasure that week and a half of business jargon and stupidly frequent hiking dates with this lovely woman.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48416268)



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Date: December 5th, 2024 4:41 PM
Author: Flushed space elastic band

<3

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48416288)



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Date: December 5th, 2024 4:44 PM
Author: lex

love u bro

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48416294)



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Date: December 5th, 2024 4:46 PM
Author: Indigo casino wrinkle



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5605427&forum_id=2#48416298)