i lack some kind of going for the kill instinct. there were multiple points where she clearly, in retrospect, was fishing for me to invite myself back to her place, but it took until she got up the courage to straight-out ask me to--'i don't want you to think less of me, but'--for me to get it. it did not fully dawn on me that some women actually want me to aggressively pursue them.

y'all were right in the other thread. i've been taking this way too seriously. there's a transactional element to everything here, and consequently a lack of specialness in the question of who is involved. alternatively, i'm now not taking this seriously enough, and this is how dating devolves into broken people using each other as means rather than ends.

it was fun though and my shattered ego is temporarily saved from the gnawing inceldom following my last breakup. i thought you all should know. specifically, you all should know that i met an organic woman, got my cock touched by her slimepits, and ejaculated a lot. thank you for listening.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5707790&forum_id=2#48829773)

i know that's not what you're looking for, but you've already crossed the rebicon on having sex with her knowing that you weren't interested in a relationship. having regular sex will keep your head clear and allow you to be more realistic with other women you're considering (i.e. less tempted to accept someone because you're really just horny causing you to compromise too much)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5707790&forum_id=2#48831348)

everything else about this sounded pretty gay tbh

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5707790&forum_id=2#48829798)

on top of social cues you should also have been aware (as multiple poasters guessed from your last thread) that a divorcee that keeps giving you "please respond" texts is looking to get dicked down. i think your first thought was she was looking for emotional attachment which is lol.

women aren't completely unlike men. after a divorce they are often starved for sex + want to confirm they can still attract men.

in addition to proving to yourself "you still get it", you should also take heart that you're physically attractive enough that a divorcee looking to get dicked down choose you.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5707790&forum_id=2#48829943)

You gotta figure out what you actually want from women. And work backwards from there to figure out how to achieve those goals. Women are no different from anything else in life

Have gunnerattt give you tips. He actually understands women unlike the rest of the loser freaks on this board

GL, I'm sure you will succeed, take care

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5707790&forum_id=2#48830531)