Date: August 15th, 2026 8:56 AM Author: white exhilarant library
Every example I can think of, the “asshole” is just a Jock or Tall Guy with a 7”+ dick and the Nice Guy has a worse phenotype. Rarely is there a sharp distinction in their Personalities afaict.
Date: August 15th, 2026 11:35 AM Author: white exhilarant library
yeah my Jock buddies are always being Decisive but wtf does that mean in practice and why does it matter? like does a Nice Loser not know where to go for dinner or whatever and Asks the Woman and they go back and forth for hours?
Date: August 15th, 2026 12:08 PM Author: Multi-colored federal plaza roommate
Everyone here will say phenotype but that’s what all socially incapable and ugly losers who are addicted to screens say because it allows them to justify not trying to improve their social skills and instead they can just keep being screen addicted losers. Autists don’t get: 1) that girls register flirting as effort and balls, and guys who flirt clumsily or badly will still get more points than guys who are too scared and in their heads to try at all. 2) beyond purely spur of the moment, after 2 am and still at the bar pure hook up contexts every girl is primarily evaluating for resource extraction. So a guy who can credibly seem confident and self-assured will always help his cause immensely and way more than a guy who drops 5% of his bodyfat to get under 15% or who wears lifts to appear 1.5” taller. And 3) yes there is a subset of guys who can literally say nothing and/or completely botch any kind of social capability test and still fuck girls whose names they don’t bother to learn, but they are generally either very rare super elite 1/100k level phenotypes or they’re fucking way down relative to their phenotypes looksmatch or both. I guess I get why a balding 5’9” nerd would fantasize about easily fucking an endless parade of anonymous 6s, but I encourage you to dream a little bigger.
Date: August 15th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: white exhilarant library
imho none of this is mutually exclusive. also it's non-responsive imho (jmo). I was just trying to understand who these "assholes" are. Guys who get laid nbd irl don't seem like bigger assholes than anyone else afaik
Date: August 15th, 2026 6:53 PM Author: Azure center
do you ppl think it's 2014 or something? none of this is happening anymore. it's whether you give them resources or you increase their social media status
i have no idea what u people are talking about tbh
Date: August 15th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: Multi-colored federal plaza roommate
(Guy who hasn’t met enough psychopaths, or else has a dim, incurious mind and never spent much time observing them and thinking about why they are effective)
Date: August 15th, 2026 2:38 PM Author: maniacal big office
imo this answers the bulk of the issue. yes there are still fringe losers who are disagreeable and abrasive, and also many lawyers, who are both assholes and yet not attractive to women
Date: August 15th, 2026 5:37 PM Author: electric sweet tailpipe feces
Chicks can easily out kick their coverage on dating apps with dudes who want an easy lay. They interpret getting fucked and ghosted as the guy being an asshole or "playing games." That's why so many chicks have shit like "not here for hookups, tired of men playing games" etc in their profiles.
Date: August 15th, 2026 5:39 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
Girls like assertive and confident men.
Dorks are very biased to classify some dudebro as an asshole because 1) Sour grapes and 2) They got bullied by someone and associate anyone similar with being an asshole.
Dorks will call a Shane Gillis good hearted dudebro an asshole because they can't distinguish between them and evil jocks, and they don't want to understand the difference because they hate them for getting pussy and have crafted a mental fortress that the reason they get zero pussy is because they're better humans.
Date: August 15th, 2026 5:50 PM Author: white exhilarant library
I am having a hard time remembering any manifestation of the nice guy with a good phenotype getting screwed over after like hs. In hs there are Scumbags who have natural game and stuff and the Jock who doesn't have his head in the game can't close the deal iirc. In college idk it's a hard reset. irl is a harder reset. everything just gets pre-screened on phenotype.
Date: August 15th, 2026 6:15 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
Bit of a chicken and egg thing where scholars may debate whether bad phenotypes wind up as low condidence nice guys or whether low confidence nice guys are categorically bad phenotype. I subscribe to your school of thought that it starts with phenotype and their nature + nurture leads to this. Either way, of course you don't see high confidence losers, aside from PUA Mystery types faking it that have veered way out of their lane and are understandably mocked by all.
Date: August 15th, 2026 9:24 PM Author: Cheese-eating coffee pot whorehouse
You're probably 5x more likely to get a girl if you meet her at a party and tell her that her breath smells than if you become friends with her and after months of hanging out you write her a love letter.
I don't think its that chicks "love assholes" it is that they are very turned off by desperation.