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How easily can you brush things off?
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:30 PM Author: soul-stirring pistol Last night I had to work late and so around 11:00 I'm walking back to my apartment building with my friend/co-worker (female). I passed this bar and there were a couple of drunk guys laughing and shoving each other out in the sidewalk, just messing around. As I'm walking by, one of them says, "Hey, look at this faggot here!" I stop and turn around and he's like, "Ooooh, you going to do something, faggot?" *he and his friends laugh* My friend was pulling me away, and I just thought fuck it, and walked off. I wanted to smash his face in (or at least try to....he was a lot bigger than me) but I don't need the trouble...
This little story is my roundabout way of asking, when shit like this happens to you, as it occasionally does to everyone, how easily can you brush it off and move on? It's been 24 hours and I'm still pissed at it. Pissed at those dicks at the bar. Pissed at myself for not defending myself. Pissed at my friend for being the wiser one and pulling me away. |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:33 PM Author: Boyish Flirting Sandwich somethin like that would piss me off real bad for a couple days then i let it go. I let pretty much everything go pretty quickly. Like if i have to retake a class, i'll be pissed for a few days then go ahh well such is life. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971235) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:35 PM Author: godawful exciting cruise ship http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0140067477/qid=1106282070/sr=8-1/ref=pd_csp_1/104-5141094-3911911?v=glance&s=books&n=507846 (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971249) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:35 PM Author: Charismatic orchestra pit I've had the same type of thing happen to me, and its tough to just brush it off. Especially since I've been in law school, I've been very careful to make sure that I don't get caught up in a bar fight somewhere because I don't want any arrest records to explain on my bar application. You replay the scene in your head for a few weeks, wishing that you had punched a guy, and then you gradually just forget about it and move on, glad that you made the right choice. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971252) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:38 PM Author: red cocky wrinkle That would be really tough to brush off.
But walking off was the right thing to do. And don't worry about defending yourself around assholes like that. |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:39 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake 4 yrs ago I would've kickesd their asses. Now I just let it go. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971296) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:40 PM Author: red cocky wrinkle As you should. You don't know these people, they're just assholes. You can't win that fight even if you kick their asses.
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:42 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake Exactly. And it doesn't make me more of a man to beat them up. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971321) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:43 PM Author: red cocky wrinkle Exactly. If they are so insecure/idiotic that they have to degrade you to feel good about themselves, that's their own problem. It is fair to get pissed off, and fair to be really angry about it afterwards, but the best thing to do is just let it go. Brush it off. Not letting them get to you is going to piss them off more than anything. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971332) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:44 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake Are you still at work? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971337) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:45 PM Author: red cocky wrinkle Hell no, I left at 6 for happy hour. Slow week. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971347) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:46 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake That is good to hear. 15 hr days cannot be fun. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971354) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:46 PM Author: red cocky wrinkle They definitely aren't. But they come and go anyway. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971361) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:45 PM Author: Histrionic Stage Cuckold On the other hand, one could make the argument that there's an inherent value to retribution. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971348) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:46 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake I didn't feel too good at all when I beat up this one drunkard actually (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971360) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:54 PM Author: Histrionic Stage Cuckold Even if you didn't feel better, he certainly felt worse. If you accept the notion that everyone ought to get his just deserts, then sometimes individual acts of vengeance are the only way to effect that policy. You can't always rely on the law, God, karma, or coincidence to balance the scales. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971429) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:56 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake Well I'm pretty sure he felt worse. I punched him about 6 times square in the face when he hit the ground (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971438) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:41 PM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House I posted something like this a few months ago and got torn apart.
But yeah, I was in the same position as you for a long time. |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:44 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop Why do you think you were called a faggot? Even drunks don't call guys that at random. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971336) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:45 PM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House You obviously havent been around a lot of drunks. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971344) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:48 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop I don't seek out their company, but, have seen my fair share. Someone called faggot is usually showing some kind of weakness. It's not completely random. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971373) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:49 PM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House I bounced at a club for 2 years. Believe me, lots of times there is no reason for anything. People just want to start shit sometimes. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971386) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:51 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop Was this club in a hick town where rednecks fight for entertainment? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971401) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:52 PM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House Kinda. College town where people fight for entertainment. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971413) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:54 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake Did anyone ever get just totally pummelled? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971423) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:56 PM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House Dude, crazy shit happens at bars that people never really hear about. Seriously, people got their necks broke.
Our owner trained us bouncers to choke people until they passed out when they started shit.
My first night I got 13 stitches because I got cut with a beer bottle in a huge brawl. |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:56 PM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake Wow, that's like straight out of the movies (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971444) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:57 PM Author: Histrionic Stage Cuckold Namely, Roadhouse? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971449) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:58 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop The best bar fight I've ever seen was eight or ten guys going at each other with pool cues. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971455) |
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Date: January 21st, 2005 12:02 AM Author: At-the-ready international law enforcement agency corn cake Hahah that must have been hilarious (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971482) |
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Date: January 21st, 2005 12:03 AM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop If these guys actually knew how to fight, it could have been fatal for somebody. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971491) |
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Date: January 21st, 2005 12:05 AM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House In the bar I worked in, we had 2 full football teams going at it. At that point, I just said fuck it and stayed out. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971505) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:58 PM Author: Hideous Blathering Step-uncle's House I think it happens at most HUGE nightclubs. It's not uncommon--like I said, drunk people just want to fight. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971458) |
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Date: January 21st, 2005 12:04 AM Author: Pale Comical Tanning Salon Clown Are you feeling helpless in other aspects of your life, though? Because for me, that contributes; if I've been in another situation where I'm not getting respect, or not getting heard, and then a situation like that gets me off the wall. But when life is going well, it bounces off me. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971501) |
Date: January 20th, 2005 11:39 PM Author: Histrionic Stage Cuckold I make it a point to hold grudges for life. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971283) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:43 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop What will happen if you ever get diagnosed with a terminal illness? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971328) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:46 PM Author: Histrionic Stage Cuckold What do you mean? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971351) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:46 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop Will you kill everyone on your grudge list? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971359) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:56 PM Author: Histrionic Stage Cuckold That would be impossible. I have no way of tracking down the strangers on my list. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971439) |
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Date: January 20th, 2005 11:59 PM Author: Shaky Self-centered Mental Disorder Dog Poop But you'll get the guy who punched you at first grade recess? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=126617&forum_id=2#1971463) |
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