Last night we had sex, but this time it was just regular anal, which I suggested because he seemed insecure about fisting affecting his hole. Mid-session, he started tearing up, saying regular sex doesn’t do it for him anymore, and that he’s afraid of being a “sloppy loser bottom.” I comforted him again and told him that’s not true at all, but honestly, I don’t know what else to do. He’s been so insecure about this lately, and I feel helpless. I just want my man to know he’s not defined by the tightness of his hole, everything about him is beautiful to me.

edit: For some context on how we started fisting, it was actually his idea. Since I’m quite endowed myself (9 inches long, 7 inches in girth), at one point he felt like he was ready to take more, so I started fisting him, and we both eventually fell in love with the activity. For some clarification, he has a healthy rectum. He doesn’t suffer from any injury or incontinence. We actually went for a checkup last month, and the doctor confirmed his rectum was perfectly fine. But obviously, due to the intense activity, it’s stretched and the appearance has changed too.

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