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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
carmine plaza nibblets
  05/20/22
Jfc
Hairless dog poop orchestra pit
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
motley greedy temple regret
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
carmine plaza nibblets
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
Link?
Hairless dog poop orchestra pit
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
titillating stage toaster
  05/20/22
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Sadistic national security agency station
  05/20/22
no
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
good for you two.
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
domesticated ebony box office juggernaut
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
Rose hall messiness
  05/20/22
for the most part.
Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth
  05/20/22
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coral deranged piazza
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
Violent Quadroon Location
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
appetizing liquid oxygen
  05/21/22
rare honesty
mauve stage
  05/20/22
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jag
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
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mauve stage
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
Concupiscible nofapping hospital stock car
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
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Drab embarrassed to the bone business firm
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Drab embarrassed to the bone business firm
  05/20/22
well this response for one
mauve stage
  05/20/22
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amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
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vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Mind-boggling principal's office headpube
  05/20/22
fair
amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
alcoholic know-it-all area persian
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Drab embarrassed to the bone business firm
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Hyperventilating cerise pit
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
aromatic buff black woman shrine
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
jet boistinker mood
  05/21/22
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amethyst bearded address tattoo
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
Submissive Whorehouse
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
curious milk hell
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: carmine plaza nibblets

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Hairless dog poop orchestra pit

Jfc

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: motley greedy temple regret

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: carmine plaza nibblets

That’s pretty mainstream now

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Hairless dog poop orchestra pit

Link?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: titillating stage toaster

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Sadistic national security agency station



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

no

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

is she overweight? age?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

good for you two.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: domesticated ebony box office juggernaut

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: Rose hall messiness

Life is miserable isn’t it

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: Laughsome iridescent scourge upon the earth

for the most part.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: coral deranged piazza



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: Violent Quadroon Location

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: appetizing liquid oxygen

*2 years of marriage

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: mauve stage

rare honesty

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: jag



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: mauve stage



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

I've been married well over a decade

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: Concupiscible nofapping hospital stock car

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

lol cmon man

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Drab embarrassed to the bone business firm



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Drab embarrassed to the bone business firm

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: mauve stage

well this response for one

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: vigorous sapphire step-uncle's house



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Mind-boggling principal's office headpube

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo

fair

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: alcoholic know-it-all area persian

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Drab embarrassed to the bone business firm

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Hyperventilating cerise pit

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: aromatic buff black woman shrine

you sound like a bitch boi

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: jet boistinker mood

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: amethyst bearded address tattoo



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Submissive Whorehouse

and cheat when I can tp

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: curious milk hell

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2#50093931)