Date: October 23rd, 2024 7:44 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
what's the status emotionally? are you and hurt planning on eloping? are you hoping that will happen? where are you at on the odds of "this is going to end in disaster" versus "this is gonna be a awesome forever"?
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:08 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
yeah, when i saw this, my first thought was "jag's lover is probably so stable and demure because her mom's dramatic attention-seeking meltdowns taught her how *not* to be"
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:14 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
well, the good news is, if this all does come crashing down, jag's lover will learn a valuable lesson in loyalty and take full accountability for her actions.
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:20 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
i mean, on the off-chance jag's lover won't take responsibility, surely she has surrounded herself with female friends who will logically and firmly confront her with the facts. at that point she will have no choice but to calm down and accept fault.
how does it benefit me for her to take responsibility
she says she wants a divorce regardless of what happens between us. i at least convinced her to bide her time until this blows over and she's had time to think. if she's insistent on this, i'd rather she leave on her own terms. bringing infidelity to light will just hurt a bunch of innocent parties
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:44 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
this has nothing to do with you. i'm riffing on the fact that if (when) this blows up, she will inevitably cast herself as the victim and refuse to take real accountability.
she might say "i know it was fucked up and it was wrong" but it will shortly be followed with "but i was in such a loveless marriage for so long where my emotional and physical needs were ignored for years..."
Date: October 24th, 2024 12:02 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
if the unthinkable happens and jag's lover is completely unreceptive to reason and logic, the worst case scenario is that they'll get a divorce, and the husband will be rid of her. because jag's lover is solely at fault, emotionally unhinged, and refuses to take accountability, and the hubby is completely blameless, a court would surely divide their assets and determine custody in favor of the innocent husband.
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:15 PM Author: Abnormal Piazza Toaster
Let me give you a protip: A relationship with a woman who is unfaithful in her marriage will never work out. She will fuck someone else besides you and will be a shit wife. Setting aside the morality of it, if you want to fuck her, fuck her, but stop thinking with your dick and saying that you "love her" you fucking faggot. hth
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:21 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
you're wrong. our indian md who tells her he loves her before she returns to her marital bed (nbd, she told jag it's dead) will surely have the firm hand and discipline to fix this misguided woman.
Date: October 24th, 2024 11:49 AM Author: controlling a virtual character on a computer
Tbh this isn't actually true. There are lots of instances of spouses leaving their total loser spouse and marrying someone else and going on to have a happy and successful second marriage
The cold hard truth is that some people are total losers, and unfortunately some non losers end up making a bad decision by marrying them. And these situations sometimes resolve by the desirable person leaving the undesirable person and finding another desirable person instead. It's really not that unusual
she was loyal for 22 years.. someone as hot as her could have cheated a long time ago
i realize how i sound right now but i don't think a real relationship is in the cards anyway. she won't give me kids so where would we even go if we got together
Date: October 23rd, 2024 8:11 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt)
if this isn't flame, the whole "i'm gay!" defense really increases the odds jag gets got. before he wasn't *directly* responsible for deceiving the husband.
Date: October 24th, 2024 1:21 PM Author: adventurous deep son of senegal
if i found out a surgeon was fucking my wife i'd break his fucking hands. i know i'd get off with probation and that fucker would never use a scalpel again.
i grounder my tongue into the old one's butthold all the time. she always recoils which makes me want it even more. have never gotten a whiff of anything unpleasant
the younger one has IBS so i'm not going anywhere near that thing