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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:37 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook Years of unresolved issues coming to a head. We're going to give it one last shot (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130185) |
Date: September 11th, 2026 3:38 PM Author: massive arousing property just go to therapy. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130189) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook We've been in therapy for 6 months (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130197) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: massive arousing property what does that cost (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130210) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook $300/session + a marriage because I don't think it's helping at all (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130214) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: massive arousing property is parking free at least? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130226) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook MFH (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130233) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:47 PM Author: massive arousing property can you street park or do you need to do a garage? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130237) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:49 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook We don't drive to therapy. We can walk/cab/subway. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130240) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:49 PM Author: massive arousing property subwaying to therapy tp? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130242) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook Not bad (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130243) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:52 PM Author: massive arousing property do you have to get a babysitter for the kids? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130253) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook Wtf is this line of questions (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130257) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:55 PM Author: massive arousing property just trying to help. where are the kids while you are at therapy? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130259) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:03 PM Author: lascivious stage you sound super AI, poaster. State your composition before we engage you further (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135172) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:27 PM Author: Underhanded Domesticated Boiling Water Organic Girlfriend lol u deserve everything u get for agreeing to mossaderapy u spineless fag (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130335) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:26 PM Author: yapping dull hospital tiNtcr!!!
Marriage counselors are just the HR department for the modern misandry industry. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:21 PM Author: Appetizing nighttime ticket booth stain (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130466) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 2:12 PM Author: cerebral turdskin (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135255) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:38 PM Author: titillating multi-billionaire how fat is she (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130191) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook She is 5'4"/120lbs (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130195) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: Ebony field You need to suck it up and fuck her more. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130194) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:40 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook We fuck like 3x/month. You're probably right. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130201) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: Ebony field Try it. Eventually you'll like it and your ballz will feel better too. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130207) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:24 PM Author: jade skinny woman happy wife = lay the pipe. it's not complicated (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130328) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: Fantasy-prone black woman cuckold Jesus Christ, you’re only 38? You’re young, brother. You have your whole life in front of you. Don’t waste the opportunities presented. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130196) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:39 PM Author: massive arousing property dont be a dick man (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130199) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: Fantasy-prone black woman cuckold I’d give up a lot to be 38 again. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130211) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook Taking advice on what you would do if you were 38 again (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130247) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook Young attractive women love divorced 38 years olds (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130203) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:07 PM Author: twinkling spot in eastern europe it's a plus, yes (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130699) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:40 PM Author: Useless deep gaping partner Blow that Nigga head smoove off (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130200) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:41 PM Author: sienna unholy feces (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130206) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: razzmatazz gaming laptop marriage is a giant mistake and should be outright banned for loser clique members (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130209) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface *all of humanity (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130216) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:50 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook I should have been gay (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130245) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:42 PM Author: Soggy base Crazy how we’re all still 38 but turning 42 in a few months. Age is flame (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130212) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook I turn 40 next year FMA (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130217) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: Soggy base Congrats. Gorgeous age (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130222) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook 30s have been gay af tbh (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130228) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:51 PM Author: fear-inspiring ratface market (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130249) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:46 PM Author: wine startling station (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130231) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:58 PM Author: Racy Glassy Point (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130263) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:21 PM Author: supple stage (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130465) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:43 PM Author: slippery topaz location laser beams describe problems (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130218) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:45 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook You could boil it down to communication. We don't get along. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130225) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:54 PM Author: cream electric lay windowlicker how did you not realize this before marriage? or she changed a lot? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130256) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:01 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook Seems like she suppressed her disagreeable side until after marriage (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130272) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:05 PM Author: Ebony field She just wants more dicking down. Get back in there. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130280) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:10 PM Author: razzmatazz gaming laptop women aren't like that. trust me, i know these things (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130291) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:15 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook You are a redpill/incel guy? Running 2014 schtick? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130302) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:29 PM Author: razzmatazz gaming laptop big talk from someone with a failing marriage 🤣 (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130343) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: cheese-eating sexy potus (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130401) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: gunneratttt (gunneratttt) Being this age is so weird. You see people experiencing the exact same thing you did. But when it happened to you it came out of nowhere. After your inevitable divorce, you'll see the same pattern you're experiencing happen to tons of other guys. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130714) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 3:55 PM Author: territorial fighting theater stage sound barrier Many such cases. If you don’t have kids, just gonna say divorce is 180. If she sucks now she is only going to suck worse in the future. If you can still exit and find a less awful 🐦🧠 (I know, I know), consider it. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130260) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:48 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook I'm sure it's great on the other side. Lots of guilt and regret at this point. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135220) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:23 PM Author: fear-inspiring ratface market Tension is good you’re just not fucking her and then you’re trying to close tension loops with talking and “communicating”
All gay, be seen less and go talk to other women irl so she can sense it on you
Women can only love you in your absence get away from her and maybe start cheating a bit to strengthen your relationship dynamic
Also I would say she’s very likely already cheating or has her backup monkey branch on deck so you need to be the one creating the push pull dynamic as you’re deep into hers just solely by going to Jewish therapy daycare horseshit
Women can only experience power dynamics through abuse and control mechanisms, you are in a cycle that she has created and now she has no interest since you can no longer polarize her feminine retardation by being outside of the insane retard birdbrain abuse mechanism
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:29 PM Author: Bright Bearded School Cafeteria Main People He needs to be dicking her down and using her like a whore (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130348) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:03 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook We fucked twice this weekend (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135079) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:02 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook She's 100% not cheating and I highly doubt she has a backup monkey branch on deck but thx for the toxicity. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135078) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 7:47 PM Author: fear-inspiring ratface market (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135986) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:13 PM Author: Exciting shrine Incredible poast/moniker synergy (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135184) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:04 PM Author: Brilliant mother nowag I’m in a happy marriage with a 40 year old woman. Give me your issues and I will advise (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130277) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 4:47 PM Author: Self-centered Doobsian Den im gay (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130388) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:03 PM Author: Brilliant mother nowag Me too brother — did you miss where I said I was married to a 40 yr old woman? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130422) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:07 PM Author: milky mentally impaired wagecucks azn (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130431) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:29 PM Author: Appetizing nighttime ticket booth stain 1. I dislike the overuse of this trope, but it's fitting here and I can't believe no one has said it yet: poast/moniker synergy
2. Kids? How long have you been married?
3. Do you want to save the marriage?
4. To what extent are the issues your fault? Hers? Both?
5. My only advice is that people almost never meaningfully change. If anything, they just become more of who they already are. So, you can accept whatever is going on and work within the confines of that reality. Or, you can hit the bricks. Just don't expect her to start "communicating" better or whatever. LJL at that. One caveat is that having young kids is stressful, and people get back to more of a baseline once they're a little older. (Is that applicable to you?) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:06 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook No kids yet thankfully. Married a couple years. I want to save it some days and ready to burn it down and rebuild others. We are equally at fault here - I should have been more proactive about things, she withheld a lot to get the ring.
Your advice echoes advice from my closest friends: either pick her and the relationship as it is now or get out. |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:29 PM Author: naked twisted theater no kids? RNR (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135194) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:42 PM Author: frisky travel guidebook RNR? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135214) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 1:53 PM Author: Exciting shrine run, n——, run (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135224) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 2:09 PM Author: Appetizing nighttime ticket booth stain First, thank God that you don't (yet) have kids with her.
Anyway, what exactly is the problem? Is it something that can reasonably be solved or that you can deal with? If not, count yourself as lucky you're finding out now and not something that you're stewing on at 3 am while changing your baby's diaper. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:08 PM Author: twinkling spot lesbians have the highest divorce rates. women can't stand women either (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130703) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 7:16 PM Author: fear-inspiring ratface market She’s out there getting FFFFFFFFFffffFFFfffFffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuccked right now (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130726) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 11:50 PM Author: mustard parlor give yourself a chance to love her (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50131226) |
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Date: September 12th, 2026 4:11 PM Author: Chrome ceo french chef (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50132151) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: Brussels Sprout (Apropos of the Wet Snow) dying would be less painful than what you will live to tell about (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135098) |
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Date: September 14th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: Thirsty regret crackhouse perimenopause is disastrous, and it's accelerating because of birdbrains consuming online content about how they should all leave their husbands (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135128) |