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Describe NYC on $100k a year

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copper home liquid oxygen
  09/06/26
Substantially worse than NYC on $80k.
Diverse yellow rigpig
  09/06/26
Right in that doughnut of maximal shittiness. NYC is good i...
dead field
  09/06/26
At what income level does life in NYC get good?
bronze soul-stirring fortuitous meteor boltzmann
  09/06/26
Honestly probably like $1.8-$2m per year. Taxes are high and...
Diverse yellow rigpig
  09/06/26
$1.8-$2m per year prole tell, lol
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/06/26
lol why not just $1 BILLION dollars, u have to tip ur doorma...
Irate bawdyhouse generalized bond
  09/07/26
just 1 BILLION? you prole, haven't you seen what pizza costs...
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/07/26
Define your standard of "good" and describe who wo...
dead field
  09/06/26
Single dude in 20s Couple raising a few young children
bronze soul-stirring fortuitous meteor boltzmann
  09/06/26
Single dude in the city: ideally $250k+. That's enough to g...
dead field
  09/06/26
Private school is ~$68K now.
aggressive aromatic hospital
  09/07/26
hfs
dead field
  09/08/26
Who the fuck lives in Manhattan if they have kids? I don&rsq...
concupiscible adulterous international law enforcement agency persian
  09/09/26
I've seen it and knew quite a few people with kids in Manhat...
dead field
  09/09/26
how mnay people live in the zone of maximal shittiness wh...
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/06/26
i know people who work cash so they can collect benefits wit...
bonkers rigor hall
  09/06/26
You have to ace OCI
crimson bat-shit-crazy state
  09/06/26
Depends because that describes a lot of various people. May...
dead field
  09/06/26
mfcr
Vivacious Cerise Whorehouse
  09/10/26
Worse than NYC on $10k in 1985
Alcoholic sanctuary
  09/06/26
seems unlikely: $10,000 in 1985 is worth about $31,033.27...
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/07/26
Median rent in cheaper parts of Manhattan in 1985 was $222/m...
Alcoholic sanctuary
  09/09/26
you get back in touch with your dad to ask him to cosign you...
Burgundy dilemma
  09/06/26
Welcome to Asbury Park, my friend
Stirring vengeful community account
  09/06/26
The average monthly rent in Asbury Park, New Jersey, ranges ...
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/06/26
Welcome to South Jersey, my friend
Stirring vengeful community account
  09/06/26
That is CNJ not SNJ. SNJ is like Atlantic City.
dead field
  09/06/26
small room, shared bathroom, loud neighbors, dangerous walk ...
Odious bossy love of her life space
  09/06/26
Diaper.
chrome corner tattoo
  09/06/26
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Tripping school cafeteria potus
  09/07/26
A walkup in Yorkville with roommates. Your Amazon packages w...
Aqua hunting ground theatre
  09/07/26
which NBC sitcom, Night Court?
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/07/26
haha
Aqua hunting ground theatre
  09/07/26
enjoy the outer boroughs
Balding rehab
  09/07/26
You never hear much about Kings. It’s a place irl iirc...
crimson bat-shit-crazy state
  09/07/26
if u get a rent stabilized place and cook most of your meals...
razzle-dazzle deranged hominid
  09/07/26
did you drive a beater and park on the street? how do you a...
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/07/26
i had a saab convertible haha.
razzle-dazzle deranged hominid
  09/07/26
the Seinfeld car https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk8rZfuJ...
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/07/26
i had that model before i bough the one i had in NYC. beauti...
razzle-dazzle deranged hominid
  09/07/26
Per the TV show Friends you will live in a super nice apt, h...
Irate bawdyhouse generalized bond
  09/07/26
they only made minimum wage as barristas
razzle-dazzle deranged hominid
  09/07/26
Rachel eventually became an executive at Ralph Lauren
copper home liquid oxygen
  09/07/26
according to seinfeld, it's at least a 2br on the UWS
carnelian stag film private investor
  09/07/26
I wouldn't bother. As a single person, I wouldn't bother if ...
aggressive aromatic hospital
  09/07/26
the dating market would be rough for a single guy making $20...
carnelian stag film private investor
  09/07/26
yeah a date can easily run $300 - and that's not even going ...
razzle-dazzle deranged hominid
  09/07/26
...
carnelian stag film private investor
  09/07/26
TSINAH just puts it on his Discover card
bonkers rigor hall
  09/07/26
It pays to discover!
dead field
  09/08/26
discover my judgment proof ass
carnelian stag film private investor
  09/09/26
Let me caveat that: it depends on who you are and what you'r...
aggressive aromatic hospital
  09/09/26
saying "women under 35" is like saying "men w...
Burgundy dilemma
  09/09/26
Okay, I lol’d
Tripping school cafeteria potus
  09/10/26
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poppy brunch codepig
  09/12/26


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Date: September 6th, 2026 5:18 PM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119535)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Diverse yellow rigpig

Substantially worse than NYC on $80k.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119543)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: dead field

Right in that doughnut of maximal shittiness. NYC is good if you're poor and the city hands you everything and you couldn't get all of that elsewhere (on the UWS I noticed one of the public housing areas had both parking and a pool, both of which are rare for market apartments except for very high end buildings) or rich as fuck. $100k is just that salary where you'll get absolutely nothing but not wealthy enough that you can actually appreciate the luxury stuff either. Yet, at $100k you could live a pretty great life in a place like Cleveland or the Atlanta area or whatever.

But to answer your q - if you're smart you find a rent stabilized apartments or you live in Hoboken/Jersey City. If you're dumb you live in some apartment you can't actually afford but get roommates and deal with that drama. You feel pretty poor and are budgeting everything.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119550)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 6:51 PM
Author: bronze soul-stirring fortuitous meteor boltzmann

At what income level does life in NYC get good?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119689)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 6:57 PM
Author: Diverse yellow rigpig

Honestly probably like $1.8-$2m per year. Taxes are high and housing is expensive so making even 7 figures won’t get you to first base anymore, but at $2m you start to have options.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119696)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 7:02 PM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

$1.8-$2m per year

prole tell, lol

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119700)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:44 AM
Author: Irate bawdyhouse generalized bond

lol why not just $1 BILLION dollars, u have to tip ur doorman and stuff, it can add up

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120391)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:15 AM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

just 1 BILLION? you prole, haven't you seen what pizza costs in Manhattan nowadays: LOL pizzas cost $60+ in MFH now!?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120432)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 8:25 PM
Author: dead field

Define your standard of "good" and describe who would be in the household. Trying to raise a family in NYC requires many times more than being a 20-something single guy on their first job.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119820)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 9:25 PM
Author: bronze soul-stirring fortuitous meteor boltzmann

Single dude in 20s

Couple raising a few young children

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119898)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:29 PM
Author: dead field

Single dude in the city: ideally $250k+. That's enough to get that luxury apartment (probably an alcove studio but w/e), eat at some decent restaurants, fuck whores, whatever it is that you want to do. It isn't enough to do the Hamptons and elite restaurant thing. You need $400k+ for that.

Couple raising kids? Legit 7 figures or a lot of net worth/family money to leverage. In MFH you'll need like a 3+ bedroom and that is absurdly expensive. You're paying $10k+ just in rent. Taxes are absurd in NYC. Private school is $50k/year/kid. You're going to need a car and garage. Basically anything normal people do will be more expensive and harder in NYC. There is a reason that pretty much no one with real money attempts to raise kids in NYC. They leave and head to one of the areas around NYC or leave the area entirely.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119991)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:06 AM
Author: aggressive aromatic hospital

Private school is ~$68K now.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120417)



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Date: September 8th, 2026 12:27 PM
Author: dead field

hfs

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50122606)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 4:59 AM
Author: concupiscible adulterous international law enforcement agency persian

Who the fuck lives in Manhattan if they have kids? I don’t even really see this.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50124189)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 6:33 PM
Author: dead field

I've seen it and knew quite a few people with kids in Manhattan. IRL examples that come to mind:

1. People that live in some rent controlled/stabilized/HDFC apartment.

2. People that work for the NYC government have to live in NYC. The sad thing is that the wife was the government worker and she got pancreatic cancer and died.

3. Absurdly wealthy people (Biglaw partners) that don't want to leave and can afford it.

All of them are effectively corner cases.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50125482)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 7:02 PM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

how mnay people live in the zone of maximal shittiness

what kind of pedigree/employability does one need to have to break free out of that zone

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119702)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 8:32 PM
Author: bonkers rigor hall

i know people who work cash so they can collect benefits without falling into this trap



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119831)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:52 PM
Author: crimson bat-shit-crazy state

You have to ace OCI

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120014)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:54 PM
Author: dead field

Depends because that describes a lot of various people. Maybe it is some guy that works for the city and lives in Astoria or a cheap part of Brooklyn or w/e. Or maybe it is someone working for big 4 accounting and working their way up. Or maybe it is someone with a lot of family money that is making $100k doing some bs job but they used family money to by an HDFC apartment (it is all total bs because only people with family money could buy the apartment and qualify for the income limits - but $100k is generally within the limit). So you could get something like this in MFH:

https://streeteasy.com/building/46-rivington-street-new_york/1c

https://streeteasy.com/building/323-west-43-street-new_york/5r

https://streeteasy.com/building/155-west-106-street-new_york/1a

https://streeteasy.com/building/1864-adam-c-powell-blvd-new_york/64

https://streeteasy.com/building/517-west-48-street-new_york/5f

This is a great example of the type of person NYC is actually made for. I knew people like this. They were journalists or whatever and didn't make real money but came from wealthy families so they bought one of these apartments and their families covered private schools for the kids.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120016)



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Date: September 10th, 2026 5:23 AM
Author: Vivacious Cerise Whorehouse

mfcr

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50126279)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:09 PM
Author: Alcoholic sanctuary

Worse than NYC on $10k in 1985

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119968)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:16 AM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

seems unlikely:

$10,000 in 1985 is worth about $31,033.27 today

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120362)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 12:25 AM
Author: Alcoholic sanctuary

Median rent in cheaper parts of Manhattan in 1985 was $222/month, as in half of apartments could be had for less than $222/month.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50124106)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:13 PM
Author: Burgundy dilemma

you get back in touch with your dad to ask him to cosign your lease.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119973)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:36 PM
Author: Stirring vengeful community account

Welcome to Asbury Park, my friend

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50119999)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:44 PM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

The average monthly rent in Asbury Park, New Jersey, ranges from about $2,950 to $3,400 depending on the real estate platform

Pricey

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120005)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 11:01 PM
Author: Stirring vengeful community account

Welcome to South Jersey, my friend

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120025)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 11:07 PM
Author: dead field

That is CNJ not SNJ. SNJ is like Atlantic City.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120037)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 10:38 PM
Author: Odious bossy love of her life space

small room, shared bathroom, loud neighbors, dangerous walk home/to work

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120001)



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Date: September 6th, 2026 11:07 PM
Author: chrome corner tattoo

Diaper.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120036)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 2:28 AM
Author: Tripping school cafeteria potus



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120168)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:29 AM
Author: Aqua hunting ground theatre

A walkup in Yorkville with roommates. Your Amazon packages will be stolen from the foyer frequently and no one will care. It’ll be just like an NBC sitcom.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120369)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:37 AM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

which NBC sitcom, Night Court?

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120380)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: Aqua hunting ground theatre

haha

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120386)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:38 AM
Author: Balding rehab

enjoy the outer boroughs

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120383)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:42 AM
Author: crimson bat-shit-crazy state

You never hear much about Kings. It’s a place irl iirc.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120387)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:44 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle deranged hominid

if u get a rent stabilized place and cook most of your meals, it's fine. you save a ton not needing a car. when I arrived in NYC 20 years ago, i only made about 75K and even had a car. it wasn't bad.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120390)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

did you drive a beater and park on the street? how do you afford it

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120402)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:12 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle deranged hominid

i had a saab convertible haha.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120427)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:16 AM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

the Seinfeld car

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk8rZfuJiiw

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120433)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:22 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle deranged hominid

i had that model before i bough the one i had in NYC. beautiful car.



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120440)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:47 AM
Author: Irate bawdyhouse generalized bond

Per the TV show Friends you will live in a super nice apt, have tons of friends and free time. Go on lots of dates and stuff. You will be fit and handsome, so handsome in fact you never ever are seen with an AZNgirl

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120393)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:53 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle deranged hominid

they only made minimum wage as barristas

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120401)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:14 AM
Author: copper home liquid oxygen

Rachel eventually became an executive at Ralph Lauren

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120430)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: carnelian stag film private investor

according to seinfeld, it's at least a 2br on the UWS

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120399)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:08 AM
Author: aggressive aromatic hospital

I wouldn't bother. As a single person, I wouldn't bother if I was making under $200K all in.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120420)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:09 AM
Author: carnelian stag film private investor

the dating market would be rough for a single guy making $200k in NYC

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120422)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:13 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle deranged hominid

yeah a date can easily run $300 - and that's not even going to a fancy place

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120428)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 10:14 AM
Author: carnelian stag film private investor



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120429)



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Date: September 7th, 2026 11:47 AM
Author: bonkers rigor hall

TSINAH just puts it on his Discover card



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50120575)



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Date: September 8th, 2026 12:27 PM
Author: dead field

It pays to discover!

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50122603)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 4:55 AM
Author: carnelian stag film private investor

discover my judgment proof ass

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50124186)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 10:18 PM
Author: aggressive aromatic hospital

Let me caveat that: it depends on who you are and what you're looking for.

The doormen in my building make like 80-90K per year, much of it in tax-free tips. One of them is a charismatic Puerto Rican bodybuilder who fucks tons of hot chicks. They're not UES socialites but some are upwardly mobile nurse practitioners, real estate agents, etc.

What you don't understand (or remember) is that NYC has tons of gays, foreigners, and other undesirables for hot white women under 35. And women generally only want to date men of a similar social class. There are just way more single women than men, and the sex and the city culture has indoctrinated NYC women to be depraved whores to attract men. There's really nothing like it in the US.

Moral of the story is you are OK dating here even under 200k if you are a chad or even just charismatic/ambitious. But if you want to lock down a good wife from a wealthy family you will not even be a blip on the radar at 200K.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50125991)



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Date: September 9th, 2026 11:04 PM
Author: Burgundy dilemma

saying "women under 35" is like saying "men who make over 100k"

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50126077)



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Date: September 10th, 2026 11:13 AM
Author: Tripping school cafeteria potus

Okay, I lol’d

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50126697)



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Date: September 12th, 2026 4:15 PM
Author: poppy brunch codepig



(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5901164&forum_id=2#50132161)