Marriage counselors are just the HR department for the modern misandry industry.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130332)

All gay, be seen less and go talk to other women irl so she can sense it on you

Women can only love you in your absence get away from her and maybe start cheating a bit to strengthen your relationship dynamic

Also I would say she’s very likely already cheating or has her backup monkey branch on deck so you need to be the one creating the push pull dynamic as you’re deep into hers just solely by going to Jewish therapy daycare horseshit

Women can only experience power dynamics through abuse and control mechanisms, you are in a cycle that she has created and now she has no interest since you can no longer polarize her feminine retardation by being outside of the insane retard birdbrain abuse mechanism

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130324)

2. Kids? How long have you been married?

3. Do you want to save the marriage?

4. To what extent are the issues your fault? Hers? Both?

5. My only advice is that people almost never meaningfully change. If anything, they just become more of who they already are. So, you can accept whatever is going on and work within the confines of that reality. Or, you can hit the bricks. Just don't expect her to start "communicating" better or whatever. LJL at that. One caveat is that having young kids is stressful, and people get back to more of a baseline once they're a little older. (Is that applicable to you?)

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50130487)

Your advice echoes advice from my closest friends: either pick her and the relationship as it is now or get out.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135083)

Anyway, what exactly is the problem? Is it something that can reasonably be solved or that you can deal with? If not, count yourself as lucky you're finding out now and not something that you're stewing on at 3 am while changing your baby's diaper.

(https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902784&forum_id=2#50135246)