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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:40 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma Last night
Mom: Did u get ur packet?
Me (immediate response): Yes
Now
Mom: Wow! Don't act so warm and fuzzy. I love you [name] but you sure make it hard to like you. |
Date: October 21st, 2026 12:45 PM Author: galvanic sneaky criminal She's Right (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199907) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:46 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma wow (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199908) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:46 PM Author: free-loading navy principal's office (Amy Acton) (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199909) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:49 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma i don't know who this or the context (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199921) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:49 PM Author: galvanic sneaky criminal (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199922) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:52 PM Author: queensbridge benzo (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200107) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:47 PM Author: ruinous phenotype "don't forget to comment on my substack" (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199910) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:49 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma havn't shared any of my writing with any friends or family, which is always a bad idea (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199917) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:08 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) Actually these are the people you *should* be sharing it with and the only reason you don't is because you know they'll react poorly and which frustrates the true purpose of it being a vehicle to wallow in isolation and misery. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199978) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:09 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma this is backward and wrong, as usual. go away. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199981) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:15 PM Author: Racy people who are hurt menage mods (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199993) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:47 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface Invite her over for dinner. When she shows up and asks what you're preparing, tell her "YOU!" and chase her around with a prop knife. When she finally collapses and thinks it's over, shout "HAPPY HALLOWEEN!" and help her up. Then tell her to get the fuck out and to stop being a bitch (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199912) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:50 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma this is just a tiny example of my general dislike of women and my focus on "totality"
here there's a surface level question or comment, with a brutal underlying unstated demand, lashes out if the underlying understated demand is not met, and she universally claims to not cause "drama" at the same time |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:58 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface Ok, so maybe use a real knife and not a prop (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199949) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:24 PM Author: drunken stage (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200014) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:51 PM Author: ferengi what packet? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199927) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:52 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma something she sent in the mail to a group of people four or five days ago (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199932) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:53 PM Author: ferengi was it a gift of some kind? is that why she expected a warmer response, like a "thank you"? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199933) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:54 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma no (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199936) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:54 PM Author: ferengi or a "congratulations" or something? i'm struggling to understand why she expected something more than acknowledgement of receipt (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199938) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:55 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma because she's old and does nothing so the slightest effort apparently deserves effusive praise (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199941) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:56 PM Author: ferengi lol. i mean i'm generally effusive and i thank people when they do anything nominally helpful for me, but i still think it's weird for her to expect that from you (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199944) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:14 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) I think he's mentioned that his Mom is a typical overbearing, critical Jewish Mom. While probably very frustrating and annoying, this is likely her way of showing love and affection. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199989) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:15 PM Author: ferengi that's what i'm thinking, too. hard to get a good read on this exchange without knowing anything about what she actually sent though (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199992) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:00 PM Author: galvanic sneaky criminal Counterpoint: she mailed you the packet (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199954) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:00 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma wow (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199955) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:07 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface It would matter whether he even wanted the fucking thing. If yes, then some amount of warmth is appropriate. If not (or even ambivalent), and if it wasn't something for his benefit, then she's entitled to nothing (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199974) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:11 PM Author: ferengi agreed. but surely she thought it would be useful for him somehow; otherwise why would she have sent it? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199987) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:18 PM Author: galvanic sneaky criminal (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199996) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:19 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface Motherfucker, do you have a mom!? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200161) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:21 PM Author: ferengi my parents send me random useful things all the time, it is truly 180000000. i always thank them with enthusiasm/emojis or on video (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200165) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:30 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface There are two "normal" paths:
1. What you describe
2. Moms who assume that anything that comes into their head is useful / helpful / worth attention because it came into their fucking head and involved a life that they excreted from their birth canal
I've long assumed that #2 is the more common of the "normal" paths. But maybe that's just bias towards my life experience |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:38 PM Author: ferengi lol makes sense. yeah my parents are particularly good at it, they always sent me 180 care packages in college, i don't deserve them (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200220) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 3:04 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface Mine sent me a fur wall hanging. What the fuck is a college student going to do with that? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200288) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 3:06 PM Author: ferengi lol cq (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200293) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 3:06 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma (outed as first generation russian immigrant) (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200295) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:11 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) She just wants to talk to you and doesn't like seeing you be miserable. You should stop reacting with annoyance and criticism and consider that she's probably one of the only people in your life that cares about you and is making an effort to help you. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199985) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:31 PM Author: Fucking Fuckface I still vote for the knife idea (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200183) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:58 PM Author: galvanic sneaky criminal Sending people lengthy screeds runs in the family (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199948) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 12:58 PM Author: ferengi (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199950) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:02 PM Author: wine alcoholic filthpig Vaxxed? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199960) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:02 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma no, shes a trumpenprole (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199964) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:04 PM Author: Saffron Diverse Immigrant Area no one likes u online or irl
its all phenotype |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:04 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma this seems to be the feedback i'm getting (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199969) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:18 PM Author: bipolar amber theater Just put in some hearts after it Yes ❤️❤️❤️ (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50199998) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:21 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma that would have prevented this response, yes, its just exhausting that i have to add effusiveness to every text and scan for subtext constantly, all while she claims to be "direct" and not cause drama (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200007) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:23 PM Author: ferengi or you can change your outlook so that you're genuinely happy to interact with her and sweeter texts might come naturally (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200010) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:25 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma maybe i would be happier to interact with her if i wasn't constantly stepping on landmines like this (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200015) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:28 PM Author: ferengi but if the landmines all involve showing enthusiasm or love, my suggestion would eliminate the problem (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200022) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 4:27 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) Responding with a flat "yes" signals coldness. When someone ks sending you one word text responses that means they don't want to talk to you. And Consuela reaction and attitude towards his Mom proves it in this instance too.
This whole thing makes me a bit sad. A Mom sending her son things and then reaching out and then even trying to pry something, anything out of him. A guy who admits he's lonely and seeking human interaction pushing his own Mom away. Just a bummer all around.
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:26 PM Author: orange exciting national (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200018) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:22 PM Author: Grizzly boiling water ladyboy Don’t be an autist with your boomer mom she needs exclamation points and emojis. Meet her where she is you fucking prick (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200009) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:24 PM Author: ferengi good point (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200011) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:24 PM Author: Contagious gunner dilemma sigh (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200013) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:01 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200123) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:38 PM Author: Deep Indian Lodge (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200222) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 6:52 PM Author: high-end blathering locus (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200604) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:24 PM Author: orange exciting national I stand with Consuela. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200012) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:01 PM Author: Accurate at predicting vs Measures of probability (gunneratttt) (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200124) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 2:38 PM Author: Deep Indian Lodge (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200219) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 1:52 PM Author: queensbridge benzo packet? (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200104) |
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Date: October 21st, 2026 3:18 PM Author: red concupiscible school cafeteria She's definitely the problem, not you. (https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5914353&forum_id=2#50200326) |